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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Should I feel guilty for flirting because I'm married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M)

- Is it normal to enjoy attention from others, of the opposite sex, while married ? I assume it is. I mean, if you don't act on it, of course. More exactly, is it normal to " flirt" for lack of a better word, when you innocently find yourself in the company of somebody... (133 words)

An engaged co-worker has confessed her feelings for me... Confused at what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - This past weekend a friend/co-worker told me she liked me as more than just a friend over the phone.well she couldn't go into in to much details,cause her financee just got in the car. yes she is engaged.she has only been with this guy for 8 or 9 months. i tried talking to her ... (95 words)

My girlfriend is so clingy and insecure it's leaving me at breaking point!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Although she really does'nt need to be, my girlfriend is very insecure. She knows it too, but this hasn't changed over the 8 years that we've been together. We are definately still in love, but pointless arguements happen all the time, which make us both unhappy. A main fac... (313 words)

Can't get my ex out of my head...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - to anyone who can advise me what to do. i have been in a relationship for 11 months with my boyfriend but can simply not get my ex of a few years out of my head. whenever i come home from uni he is the first person i think about and call. on several occasions when i have not ... (175 words)

Why do some men have pre-cum and others don't? Is it normal to have it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Help, why do some men have pre-cum and others don't. is it normal to have it? Is it bad? Does this happen only to men that are not circumcised? I have a foreskin and when i get aroused i have pre cum, other friend of mine, has no foreskin and has no pre cum? Why am i ... (61 words)

I need some costume ideas...for my boudoir photo shoot! Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F)

- For a change, this is a fun question. Not sure if I'll get any responses but I thought "what the heck..I'll give it a try"! lol I'm hoping for some great ideas. I'm getting some 'Boudoir' pics done as a surprize gift for my partner this christmas. I have put together a few ... (130 words)

He always gets pissed off with me for what i think, is no apparent reason. How do we stop the bickering?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend now for about 10weeks. in the begining we did not have arguments at all, but now we do. These arguments are over the stupidest things, that do not even matter. When i try not to make it an argument he some how manages to and always ... (208 words)

What do I do about this flirtatious female who flirts constantly with my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - i have been with my husband for about 18 years and i have a problem with some mutual friends , we have been friends with these people for about 5 years from the beginning i could sense a attraction between my husband and the my husbands friends wife, she is a girl who thrives ... (371 words)

He wants no contact for 2 weeks but it's been 3 days and I'm anxious to contact him! Help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2years and he just asked for a break. we have a fantastic relationship or at least i thought we did but this has come out of nowhere. just 2 months ago he was extremely loved up. now he wants no contact for at least 2 weeks and its only been 3 ... (95 words)

I long to be with someone else but what about my girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 925 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months, she lives with me and I am her world. She cut herslef off (own choice) from all her friends and just lives for me. 3 months ago I met a lady through work who is really cool, fun and I am really attracted to her. We went to a work... (356 words)

I can't have an orgasm!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - I am 19 and i have had sex about 5 or 6 times with different women, yet none of these women have made me come, most men would like this as it means i can last a long time but i am desperate to have an orgasm through sex, my last experience lasted over 2 hours and i STILL didnt ... (71 words)

She can't make up her mind and I'm fed up-it's either her ex or me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - is it normal to be insecured over my girlfriend relation to her ex partner? Back in july 05 i meet a very nice girl in a night club. In october i moved in with her and her 4 years old daughter. The first 3 months were really nice, we got to know each other, find out we had ... (1595 words)

He says he loves me but is just not sure if he's 'in love' with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Just a quick question! Can a guy adore you, care a lot about you, be very physically attracted to you, be your best friend, tell you everything, love you but not know if he's in love with you???? My bf of 3 years and I recently broke up, I know he did genuinely love m... (98 words)

He loves another girl and plans on marrying her...do I tell him I love him too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 946 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Hi girls....I wonder if u could help me coz' i know this guy for a very long time and hes a very good friend of mine. Charmy/good looking. But the thing is its about awhile that i think like ive fell in love with him and i cant stop thinking about him.........even when i go ... (114 words)

Do I date this guy in my band or the other fellow who is 9 years older?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice urgently! ok well im 16 and in a band, and i think my guitarist likes me ALOT. He is always play fighting with me and telling me that I rock and that im special. He is always staring at me and he just seems so perfect. I don't think I have ever ... (189 words)

I asked her for a date..She told me she would get back to me but she has not responded. What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - I recently became interested in a woman. We were co-workers with a company. Last year, I transferred to a different division. After my transfer, the two of us began serving together on a advisory board. I began to develop feelings for her. It grew more intense over time. ... (211 words)

Is she worth the risk if I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (?) - heya, im a student and im in an immpossible situation, it would be great to get some advice as to what to do. im a student, and there are four of us in my house. 2 men and 2 women. the other girl and guy fell in love and were in a relationship for about 2 years at uni, im... (478 words)

She wanted to slow things down but she now ignores me totally!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend decided to slow our relationship down after we got off to a pretty hot and heavy start. It was mostly her decision, but I agreed and was willing to slow things down. I've been trying to get together with her, but she always had an excuse why we couldnt go ... (123 words)

I back away when things get serious...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - I am 20 years old and have been in 2 serious relationships both lasting over 2 and a half years each. I have been single for 9 months now. I have had 3 one night stands in this time but nothing serious. I started getting involved with this guy but as soon as things started ... (155 words)

My husband is demanding a divorce, but he isn't doing anything about it. Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Until my father died in June, things were fab between I and my husband, affectionate,loving, but a mr angry at himself, before father died, found out o load of truths, and heartbreaking one. Various other things that I found out,that was hidden for years. It all got to much for ... (202 words)

Do I try and save my relationship or try to be with a guy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - I'm 19 nd have been in a relationship for over a year, but in the last month or so I feel like we're growing apart. We both go to dif colleges, have dif interests and recently there hasn't been alot of conversation between us he seems to prefer talking to his friends when we go ... (128 words)

We dont talk, he shouts and swears...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - hi im 23 and have one son with my current partner he is alway playing world of warcraft and we never talk he shouts and swears at us but blames me i work hard i get told im having affairs he looks on my phone and though my stuff. ive been with him for 8 years and never cheated ... (104 words)

We had a threesome and now Im torn between my boyfriend and friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Okay. So my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 8 months and we have been pretty happy. We plan on moving in together this summer and have talked about the future together. BUT, now i'm confused. We are both friends with one of his ex's, to the extent that we ... (296 words)

Can we have a long distant relationship if we can't be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F)

- I have a very close net friend, who I have been chatting to for quite a while. We are very very close. I really like him more then a friend and I know he likes me more too, hes made those feelings very clear to me. The thing is he lives in a different state to me, yet he might ... (296 words)

How can an unhappy married woman enjoy her christmas celebration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - i would like to know how an unhappy married woman can enjoy her christmas celebration?... (15 words)

My wife left and I still love her...can we get back what we once had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - Hi - My question is this..... My wife and I were happily married four years ago. We had some small problems (as you do) but most of the time we were able to work around it and keep things moving along and retain our happy marriage. About a year ago, she decided she wanted to ... (278 words)

He's in contact with other people off the internet...can I ever fully trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - I wonder if you can give me some advice. I feel very confused. I have been with my partner 6 months and love him dearly. About 3 months into the relationship I looked at his phone and found text messages which where pretty sexual from a girl he'd met through a dating website - ... (438 words)

How do you make a relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - I am currently 17 and have been dating my boyfriend since we were both 15. We've been through many things and both changed some to make our relationship work, especially making sure we are on the same page regarding maturity. We don't want to be just another highschool fling. ... (163 words)

I hate the type of losers my gf used to date..I can't overcome this. Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriends past is killing me, i hate the kind of guys she has made out with, i see them all the time also it hurts me and pisses me off, i am trying my best to get over it but its toughhhhh, she barely did anything with them but it still drives me nuts like why she would ... (106 words)

Are there any ways to make your vagina smaller, without surgery?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 901 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Is there any way to make a vagina smaller? My friend is asking and she doesn't have an account, so I figured what the hell, cuz if it was me, I would have asked for myself, hell, i think I will actually, Is there any way to make your vagina smaller? (without surgery?)... (53 words)

My crazy sister gets home in two weeks... Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - I am 30 and my sister is 28. My sister is turning into the crazy woman from the film ‘single white female’. She is currently overseas but her return in 2 weeks is making me extremely anxious, almost to the point of panic attacks. She puts on this ultra sweet persona around ... (887 words)

Is it just the sex that keeps us together or..am I beginning to really feel for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - I am with this girl for the past year, not official but we care for each other, I have never ever been so attracted to a girl ever and i have been with many girls, IS IT JUST THE SEX THAT KEEPS US GOING? i mean we always hook up and I'm just confused if i feel her enough or is ... (70 words)

My bf has porn CD's of him and his ex gf-what should I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months now. I'm 17 and my boyfriends 18. He has this box in his room with locks on it, whenever i ask to see whats inside of it he says no, cause a gifts in there or something. But today he opened it and there were 3 CDS of porn of ... (76 words)

How can a girl say she loves a guy...and then just dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 955 days ago

13 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend of four months just dumped me. I really loved her a lot my loving feelings are gone now because I know she doesn't deserve me. I'll grant that we're both 16 and new at being in relationships. it was a long distance relationship of sorts she was only like 30 miles ... (154 words)