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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Broke up with my gf of 3 years..now I want to date a girl 4 years younger. Is the age gap a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I really need help! I'm 18 and i've fallen in love with a girl 4 years younger than me (A), i finished with my girlfriend (b) of 3 years about a month ago coz i realised i wasn't in love with her anymore. I kissed the girl (A) a couple days before that. It was the most intense ... (201 words)

My friend copies everything I do...it's getting to me! Help

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 36 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I've got a big problem with one of my friends. She copies me with everything! I told her I wanted a dog, so did she. I told her a babysitted for my younger siblings, so did she, even though her younger siblings can take care of themselves. I told her I had bad circulation,... (225 words)

I like her very much but she won't date me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 917 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I am 18 years old and completely fell for this girl I work with, she was 20. When I first met her she had a boyfriend but he ended up cheating on her and she broke up with him. Well after they split we started hanging out and I let her know how I felt. She told me that she ... (209 words)

Broke up with him because he got steaming drunk and rowed with my housemates... But now we're back together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 months. In that time we have gone out and had lots of good times together and he has treated me very well. He does not like my roommates. My roommates have been difficult for me to live with, putting pressure on ... (359 words)

Is this thing I had with Mike during my breakup period anything more than just sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend went on a break a few months ago and while we were "breaking" I hooked up with this guy I work with "Mike." I had always been attracted to Mike and have a blast with him. We bicker back and forth and he makes me laugh. Well recently I got back together with ... (176 words)

She claims to be a lesbian...so why does she flirt with me? what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I've been on here before about this, but things have progressed and I have a few more things that I'm seeking advice on! Basically, I started going out with a girl and she then told me she was a lesbian. She said that she didn't want to lead me on anymore and I respected ... (382 words)

My neighbour is a great friend, but she's wearing out her welcome!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I have a great neighbour as a friend. Unfortunately she is beginning to vist us at least twice a week and waits right up until dinner is being served up so that you feel you have to ask her if she wants some. I want to keep her friendship, I enjoy her company, but I f... (101 words)

I thought we were might have a romantic understanding... until I discovered she doesn't really read English!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I am interested in a girl at work who is Hispanic and I am white. She has a live-in boyfriend, and the two of them have a little girl togather. But a few months ago she initiated contact with me and began to flirt openly with me. This tells me that her boyfriend may not mean as ... (497 words)

What could the girl have possibly done that makes her think I could never like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I'm really confused at the moment because this girl I like won't let me know where I stand. One minute she says she wants to be with me and the next she says she can't and has 'to let me go'. She seems to have a lot of secrets, she told me that if I knew what she is really l... (143 words)

I rarely see my long-distance girlfriend. Now I'm falling for a coworker...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 928 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I really need help. I have not slept in 2 weeks. I am seeing my girlfriend for four years. For the last year it has been long distance. This has recently started to get to me in that we only see each other once a month. I truly thought this was the girl I would spend the r... (223 words)

I'm young, studying law and have my whole life ahead of me. But all I want is a baby!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 920 days ago

21 December 2005 (F)

- I need some advice - I'm going mad! I'm 18 years old and I am at university studying law. I have a great family, loads of friends and a great boyfriend. But I really want a baby!! I've wanted one on and off since I was 13 and now I really want to get pregnant. My boy... (141 words)

I want to change my bad ways to keep my girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (M)

- So...me and my 'girlfriend' have been on a break for 4 weeks now and it's enabled us to do a lot of thinking and given me a chance to sort my life out a bit. BUT... We went out for the day yesterday. We'd agreed to go out and I planned the whole thing and it appears the d... (222 words)

He doesn't reply to my texts, even though he said everything's OK. Should I just forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hi I'm a very confused girl at the moment. This boy that I've been kinda seeing has just come home from America for Christmas after been gone for 2 months. He rang me from America and everything seemed fine between us, but since he has come home on Monday 19th December I ... (85 words)

My friend let on about my secret relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F)

- Dear Cupid, This lad and I have kind of a secret relationship going on, we've not done anything but there have been talks that we would. So my best friend, who was telling me about her boy trouble so I told her what was going on. She said she wouldn't tell anyone, but then she... (93 words)

My mum reckons I shouldn't go out with either boy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 912 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hey well first off Merry Christmas! Well i talked to the boy in my last question but the day i did i found out some one else likes me and the one from my question boy 1 my mom says im not aloud to go out with and boy 2 my mom says it owuldn't be right to cause him -n- one of my ... (87 words)

Should I be worried about him being irresponsible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He says he does love me and can be gentle and thoughtful. There is another side to him. He is in his thirties but can be 'one of the boys' when he is out, looking at other women, making comments and things. Many of his mates are ... (157 words)

My girlfriend says she loves me as a friend but does she really like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - i am in a very complicated relationship. i dont know where its at or where its going, my girlfriend cant seem to make her mind up about me, our relation ship has been on and off for about the last 5 months.one week were going out the next were not. she tells me that she love... (193 words)

Can I love someone but date someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - hi, i broke up with my boyfriend and planning to see someone else. but i can't forget my ex. our's was a mutual and a friendly break up. no hard feelings.i feel this new person is nice and don't want to hurt him. can i love some one and date someone else. i feel guilty?... (60 words)

Will highlights damage my hair as I've been told?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - hELLO, this is a really stupid question, dont even know if it will be posted. Will highlights damage your hair, I've got curly light brown hair, and want to put highlights but have been told that it will damage it, and never be the same? Is it bad, im sure if you do it all... (75 words)

A little thing like my phone being off causes an argument with my boyfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for going on three years. He been accusing me of cheating and not trusting my every move. When we're together it's cool sometimes, but most of the times we argue about anything. It seems to me that he's not happy. We recently broke up because ... (110 words)

Am I asking too much of my partner to give me more compliments... Is it right to ask him to change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, I have an otherwise good relationship with my partner. We have been together for two years and living together for 18 months of that. He says he loves me and I believe that he does, but he is not very good at articulating his feelings. This leaves be feelin... (506 words)

I've fallen for a guy who is on a "break" from his girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hey, I like this guy who already has a girlfriend but the thing is he's on a break with his girlfriend. We spend a lot of time hangin out with eachother and we kissed after a long while. I don't know what to do, cuz i really like him and i know that the whole situation is jus ... (92 words)

Trying to win the heart of the girl I want. Should I go all-out on New Years Eve?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - There's a girl I'm crazy about and was told by her friends that she likes me. We get on like a house on fire. But when I asked her out she said it was too soon, cause she had just broke up with someone. But she wishes she was ready. Then we kissed twice and I said I would wait ... (140 words)

I think he's my soulmate, but he says he doesn't have feeling for me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hi! I'm in a serious relationship for almost 5 years. Just a few months ago we broke up. He said he's fed up with my attitude, that I'm a nagger and other stuff. Later on I found out that he's involved with another girl and that girl was the person who's courting him even if ... (175 words)

I'm pregnant and the father of my child won't stop his constant lies!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. We are expecting our fisrt child. My boyfriend lies about things and I guess he doesn't think I know or I won't find out. It's just gotten to the point that I don't believe anything that he says. Also, he hasn't had a jo... (119 words)

We have 4 kids together and I've never been with another man... but he treats me so badly!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hello, I really need advice to my problem. Pease aunties help me. I have been with a guy for 13 yrs now. We both met at age 14 (we both the same age) and my mom heard that I was with this boy and threw me out; however being so young his mom took me in, and I lived there with ... (640 words)