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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it creepy to have a relationship with him when he posted online for causal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Met a guy on a dating site, we totally clicked and I really really like him and he feels the same about me. We have so much in common too. Seems great right, but I recently found that he or someone that looks amazing like him, posted pics and ...

Am I too jealous of what my boyfriend watches?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. We are really close. He would never ever cheat on me. Yet I still have jealousy issues. I feel like my jealousy is severe. Like some other women, I don't like when my boyfriend watches TV because I know he ...

Why did he come back to ignore me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hello, so me and my ex boyfriend broke up in 2010.. He had a gf as soon as we broke up but that didn't stop us from sleeping together.. We stopped talking for 8 months then he decided to email my cousin on facebook so she can give me his new number! ...

His asexuality doesn't match my high sex drive! Can it possibly work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone! I am currently dealing with an issue I need some advice on. I have been in a relationship for several years and and my partner and I had always had an active sex life. I was always satisfied, though he could never reach orgasm. I ...

I made some bad decisions and now I'm confused about monogamy!

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20 January 2013 (F) - I met an older man (39) online last year and when we finally met, we had amazing chemistry. We quickly fell in love and married after only 3 weeks. Everything seemed great and we experimented with many sexual fantasies. We are both bisexual and ...

FWB tells me to "enjoy the moment", but the moment is now 18 months and one aborted pregnancy. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Am in an fb or fwb relationship for a year and half now. He is a coworker and friend who flirted a little with me. Because of my personal problems ie divorce, no final financial settlement and children now 8 and 4 entrusted to father by court I ...

My boyfriend doesn't show me any affection. I've tried everything to improve myself. What else can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. He's in the military and is divorced with 2 kids. After a year of long distance relationship, I decided to move in with him. I am having the hardest time not receiving affection ...

Marriage is just about over but I still have questions ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - It has been one month since I last wrote to this site. I can't say that a lot has happened until about two weeks ago... I sought out counselling finally! He is very supportive and listens to me. Right now I'm at a major intersection and...

Boyfriend claims that I just want a ring as a prize!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I have been talking about marriage. Please note that I am a grown woman with a degree, a job, my own home, car, pay all of my own bills, am completely self-supprting. I am generous in relationships in general with my ...

Boyfriend lied.. how to trust him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for over 4 years. He is my first, but he has had one long term relationship before me. We have had a great relationship in every aspect and nothing has threatened it so far. Well.. i admit sometimes it does feel ...

How can I tell my boyfriend that he doesn't need to bring up his children in every conversation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I am a horrible person that has hurt ny boyfriend in the past. I have changed however and he can see that. He has kids to another girl that he only gets to.see every known and then. i feel like he still loves this girl no matter how much he tells me ...

A girl at work told me that she's been having an affair with my dad, she's pregnant, and that she wants to marry him, and they're in love!! How will I ever cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Recently I found out off my friend [a girl in work] that she's been having an affair with my dad. What she said next was the kicker - she told me she's pregnant, and that she wants to marry him, and they're in love!!! I feel sick, disgusted and up...

Do people somehow get a free pass to behave less well because they have an ex and kids? While those without an ex and kids are expected to come second?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi aunts. Can I have your opinion on this: If one partner in a relationship is divorced with kids and the other never married no kids, what responsibility does the divorced partner have in the relationship? Is it less than if he had no kids or ...

How can I break up with my internet buddy? Shall I just tell him the truth, even if he thinks I used him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi there, my problem is that I started internet dating and met this guy and slept with him on our first date because I wanted to show my ex-bf that I could and had moved on. This guy is nice but now he is still around, he told me he loves me and w...

Can anyone help me feel better about this? My heart is broken over our breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My first love and I broke up a month ago. We had been together for 2 years and even lived together. We broke up because we both have issues, but mainly because he wasn't ready to be with one person forever and because he was in denial about be...

I'm of Indian descent. Why do white guys want a relationship with me but ask for it to be a secret? It hurts me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Why is it that so many of the white guys I know that want a relationship with me wants one in secret? I'm tired of a guy saying I have a thing for Indian woman but no one can know about it. In public they would much rather be seen with someon...

Why can't I keep a friendship going? When I get closer the friendship falls apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I seem to have trouble keeping friendships. In the past year alone i have lost two close friends whom i did consider to be bestfriends. I feel like the longer i spend time with a person the farther we drift. I have friends who are not so c...

Is he just trying to delay things more? I wanted something more permanent. He's got excuses ready (for why not) and I'm sick of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 49 and I am 43. We have been dating for 2 1/2 years. We have for the last several months spoken a little bit about getting married. We each have houses about 40 miles from each other, dogs, kids, jobs, the usual. It is ofte...

He seems unfazed by our break up. Why can't he accept that I've broken up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend seems unfazed by our break up. It has been a little over a month now and he has been sending me texts every now and then and I have just been ignoring him. He sent me a text today and we ended up chatting on yahoo messenger. I never re...

How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 January 2013 (M) - I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...

How can I stop caring for this guy who obviously doesn't care for

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I started dating this guy 3 years ago. At first he seemed so sweet and trustworthy. After a few months we started to fight over the fact that I was still friends with my ex boyfriend. We would fight a lot because I could tell he didn't trust me...