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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Trying to make my marriage blossom, but I can't last 5 minutes without thinking about my lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Married for 23yrs I met the love of my life who has been married 24yrs. We had an undeniable connection, and made love 24hrs after meeting. His first time and my first, since our weddings. We live in different states. I returned home and ...

Does she have the right to ignore me like we were strangers even though I pushed her away and ignored her because I was scared of a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - There was this girl who I had been seeing for quite a while, but I felt it was getting too serious for my liking, we were growing a lot closer far too quick and I knew it wasn't what I wanted. Because I'm not a relationship person, i'd be a terrible ...

My best friend who is like a brother to me admitted that he's gay and attracted to me. I am now avoiding him because I don't know how to handle this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - I’m a man in my early thirties and right now I have a complicated situation in my life. My best friend confessed to me that he’s gay. We know each other for almost 25 years and he’s like a brother to me. We grew up together, we went in the same ...

I don't understand why my friend suddenly went quiet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - This will sound a little silly coming from an adult but... one of my friends is being a little strange and I just don't know why. We have been friends for three years now and have become pretty close in that time. We are both married, so the usual ...

I love him to no end, I would do or give anything for him, I can't move on but it's tearing me apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - 1 year and 9 months ago me and my boyfriend broke up and he refused to speak to me afterward even though he said we could still be friends. although we never spoke i could never get over him and a year and 2 months after we broke up he started ...

Everything was fine until my first love put a hold on our relationship, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4110 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Everything was fine until my first love put a hold on our relationship, what do I do? I've been with my girlfriend for just over one year, and it's my first serious relationship that I've been in however I now need some advice. We're both from ...

My boyfriend doesn't talk to me and threatens to leave me if I don't stop nagging him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hi My bf of 3 years always ignores me, he doesn't even talk for 10 minutes with me but has time for his friends and for watching TV and playing games. Whenever I ask he says I'm nagging him and if this continues he is gonna leave me. He doesn't eve...

Should I give up at the last hurdle of 5 year long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I have no idea what to do with myself. We live in different countries in Europe. When we first met nearly 6 years ago, he promised me [m24] he would be there with me after we finished university/college. At one point I just wanted to dump it all a...

Am I out of line for wanting my girlfriend to discuss major life decisions with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - I am a little confused and could just use a little advice to keep me on the right path. My girlfriend and I had a little argument the other day. She's been distancing herself over the past few weeks, and I finally called her out on it. (We'v...

My lover said he'd contact me when things returned to normal. Its been 4 months! I can't contact him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - my lover told me not to text that he would when things get back to normal so i respected his wishes but it has been 4 months and I still haven't heard from him i am the kind of person that has to understand the reason behind things. i would ...

I don't think he loves me because his actions don't show that he does

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4110 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hello, My BF is currently very upset as he's facing many problems. I try to stand by his side as much as I can. When we met, he was constanlty chatting with me. Well, we live in different countries. Yea I know these kind of relationship has very lit...

I need advise in how to stay away from this Dr. Jeckell & Mr. Hyde that I love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I have been reading past advice on this website on dealing with dating an Italian man. Thank you. I sure could use some more support and advice. I haven't seen him in 30 days and I'm trying to stay away from him. We have been dating for sixteen ...

Are you unable to express yourself around your spouse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I moved to a rural town from a large city to be with my fiance. Sorry, this is sort of a long read. Whenever I talk about my past--this is general talk or reflection between two people as couples do and I am showing a couple of examples here, b...

My boyfriend is hot and cold...any advice would be helpful!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i were dating for a little over a year when he broke up with me saying he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore and that he was unhappy. i was so confused and hurt we never had any major issues between us. i was devastated. ...

How can I get him to last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Im in new relationship and we have been having sex for about 4 months now. Everything is great apart from then fact that he only lasts for a couple of minutes. He said its because hes out of practice and after a while he'll be better but if anything ...

He's spoken about getting married and our future together, but he isnt sexually attracted to me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have dated for a while now and have been pretty serious. He's started bringing up moving and getting married- I previously got out of an engagement with someone I was with for a few years and it makes me nervous. But wi...

He was excited about the pregnancy at first but now he has asked me to move out! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hi i am in a very hard situation at the minute, i was with a man i liked for years and he liked me. i think i may now be pregnant and i have told him this, he was really pleased at first as he has wanted a child. i have a 3 year old daughter who he ...

My lazy attitude towards sex annoys my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Hi I need some advice please. My partner and I are both 26, he works away and is only home on the weekends and I work part time and an full time in Uni. We have a great relationship and get along fab! The only thing we argue about is.....sex! He ...

Is my G/f still in love with her ex? Why is she keeping their sexual photos and is she just using me for the life I can provide for her ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (M) - Hi there, I just need some advice I've been with my girlfriend now for nearly 3 years n it's really good, we're both in our early 40,s Before me she was with someone just for sex she said but she got attached to him but he left and lived hundre...

Help! Priorities? My health? What the NHS demands? Attend the 8 year paediatrics programme and lose contact with friends? Find time to do things I enjoy? Which should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - This is about my life. I gave up teaching English as a foreign language to go to medical school aged 30. I knew it would be tough. No money, starting at the bottom, my peer group all being 10-12 years younger. I went from having classes of mainly ...