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writes:Am in an fb or fwb relationship for a year and half now. He is a coworker and friend who flirted a little with me. Because of my personal problems ie divorce, no final financial settlement and children now 8 and 4 entrusted to father by court I prefered to be alone. Father of my children falsely accused me that I sexually abused our children then 11 months and 4 years. So I pay alimony. Trust me am a very good person. Just married the wrong guy. Anyway too many problems to commit to a person but a year and half back I went to this coworker's place, he showed me his dick and we had sex. This happened first time September 2011. He impregnanted me. I aborted in March 2012.When I tell him I love him during sex he looks at me. We both enjoy sex. He travels alot. Recently my house was sold, I asked him to stay with him for three weeks until my place is ready, he said yes then changed his mind. Its clear he just wants to have sex with me. I slept with him because I like him but also because I had no sex for three years. I went for fun but I wish he could date me now. During my recent removal he did not help me. Instead he f*cked me, did a few things to help with organising and left in the morning. We usually have sex and sleep together at his or my place. Two days after that morning (November 2012) he wants me to go to his place. Since then am keeping myself busy. He has kept inviting me since but I say am busy. He has persisted to tonight. I like him but he told me to enjoy the moment. I have enjoyed the moment for a year and half. He wanted to meet my children but it is not possible because I see them once in two weeks under supervision. I have met his daughter on several occasions. If you were me, what would you do? Would you continue enjoying the moment? Because of my personal problems I am very reserved and protective. Others find me beautiful, intelligent, stong and well off. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses. Now the strength to end this.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (20 January 2013):
 It sounds to me like you are living your life around your sexuality...... That's a pretty shallow premise and base for determining what one does from day to day....
As to your submittal specifics: This guy KNOWS that you are ripe to be exploited.... and he's probably quite pleased that YOU exhibit no tendency to discontinue being his tart on the side....
YOU have to decide just how your future will be. IF this guy is in your future, reconcile to yourself that you've had a preview of your future..... and decide if you really want that, or something a little more substantial....
Good luck....
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