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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me five years ago. It's ruined everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend had cheated on me when we first started seeing each other with some girls from his university and he chose to tell me at the start of last month. We thought I was pregnant so he said he needed to tell me before the result. I wasnt ...

My boyfriend is holidaying with a past FWB!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is going on a holiday in a mixed group, including the girl he cheated on his last girlfriend with. To be fair, he booked this holiday while we were on a short break (we've been together 15 months); though he paid for it a few weeks a...

Why, after 23 Years am I having trouble over this? My view of my wife is shattered

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - so after 23 years of being married this question has come up. Why now I don’t know. Before I met my wife, she had a boyfriend in in high school. They waited until after graduation to have sex. While she was at collage he cheated on her. I me...

I have a very bitchy mother-in-law who refuses to let go of her son's umbilical cord

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I have a very bitchy mother in law who refuses to let go of her son's umbilical cord !!!! She came to live with us last to last summer and made my life a living hell. To this day those memories keep haunting me! I have talked to my husband abt it, ...

I can't get these images of his getting lap dances (before we were married) out of my mind!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I am upset abt the fact that my husband (then boyfriend) got fully nude lap dances at gentlemans clubs/strip bars at least 6-8 times before we were married. Although we were living in different places at the time n it was an on off thing, but we ...

He's 30 and my parents hate him. How do I tell my parents I want to marry him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Please dont judge. all i want is advice and hear what you think. First of all I am 18 years old, and i am going out with a guy that is 12 years older than me. We have been dateing for about 9 months. you should know that My parents HATE this g...

All of his feelings for me came pouring out but I don't feel the same, so he expects us to carry on like normal! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So a while ago i posted a question, which asked whether or not a guy and a girl could actually be friends without it being compromised by physical attraction or it ending up in one or the other falling for the other. I asked this based on a ...

My friend's boyfriend tried to kiss me but now claims it was my fault, and my friend believes him over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hello. I have a really close group of female friends and have been.since school age really. I moved over here when i was 13 as my mum and dad divorced and she remarried my stepfather, and he moved to ireland for work reason. Anyway i was really ...

Boyfriend is overly friendly with another girl, now he's travelling miles away to visit her and has booked a double room......is he cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I'm in a bit of a predicament with my partner right now and I have no idea what to do. We have been dating for five months, almost six, I really like this guy and we spend loads of time together but he met a girl at a festiv...

He lied about sleeping with someone while we were apart and it has broken the trust in our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, To begin with, I'm in a relationship for like 3 months now, and I've been with that same guy in a relationship 2 years until we broke up in 2011. So we got back together, obviously. Things went very good, we get along extremely ...

Why does my wife pull away from me when I want her this bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - So I posted not so long ago a question because my wife just doesn't ever have sex with me, she may maybe one every other month use to be once a month but anyway yah thats still an issue, but we've talked about it. We do have a 5 month old and stuf...

Am I being used for sex? Is this love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I feel like I'm being used for sex, but the only time we ever spend time with each other is arguments of me not loving him, not being attracted to him that why I'm not always wanting sex. Today first time in like for never he says I'm not emotiona...

He watches porn, there's talk of threesomes and dominance. What's wrong with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So my bf is always stating that I want threesome and I tell him I don't and I never wanted it when it was offered. But he refuses to believe me or pulls some other guy outta the air and says I want it with him. It's so hurtful n annoys annoying, I ...

Do I have any say since we've broken up emotionally? Does it seem very sly what he's doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - We have been together 6 years im 46 hes 44 we have not had sex in 2 yrs we decided to call it quits but we stay together only for financial reason, until we get our money in order for the next 6 months anyway. I have found him talking to som...

What alternative actions would help? Will my tough love response help my daughter recognise the problems she appears not to see?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - I am a 62 year old semi retired man living in a Mediterranean island. My daughter of 35 lives in Ireland with her partner. They have a daughter of 2 years. Both are unemployed and living on the dole. I have so far supported my daughter to ...

Broke up with him due to his halitosis and very bad personal hygeine. Can or should or how do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hi, So I have this issue with this guy I dated almost four years ago. See I broke up with him because he had bad breath and is hygiene was not the best in the world. We stayed for him again but I don't want to say anything because I'm not sure if ...

Rebound. Do I find a way to stop loving him? Or do I hold on and suffer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I was a friend to my ex for a year before he discovered that his wife had betrayed him and they proceeded very quickly to end the marriage. Of course, he ran to me as a shoulder to cry on and, slowly, things developed into more after the divorce....

He's been unreliable multiple times.I want to get him back. Do you think I can? and how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So here's the situation. I started at a new school this semester (in September). It's a professional school so all the students in it range from about 22 to 26. Halfway through the semester, I met a guy and we really hit it off. We decided to start...

We had a secret kind of relationship. Should I wait for him to come to his senses?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So, I began hooking up with my guy friend not too long ago. It was a secret kind of relationship because it wouldn't have been accepted by one of our friends who is in love with the guy I was hooking up with. Our hooking up didn't just start up out ...

I don't enjoy sex with him! Is there a way to work through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - When my boyfriend and I got together, it had been 3 years since my last boyfriend, and even longer than that since I had last had sex. Since we started having sex, I just don't enjoy it, he can't make me orgasm unless there's tons of foreplay ...