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writes:Why does my husband flirt with everyone but me? He seems happy when he's with me. We laugh and cut up and have so much fun together. But the other girls get the "sweetie" and and the touches and stuff. Is he just a really flirty guy? I am a few days shy of 40 weeks pregnant so maybe he's just genuinely tired of looking at me pregnant. Any thoughts on that one? I look pretty awesome to be so pregnant so it is a little hard to understand. What are the thoughts? Thanks!
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (17 August 2011):
 I suspect its less about you and more about him, when he flirts with other women.
Some guys normally come off charming, or at least like to think of themselves as charming. They probably like to see how many women they can get interested in them. While they it is generally harmless, I really think they get a small ego boost everytime they get a woman "to bite" and reply back. Let's face it, he has already gotten you, so his ego is already been met with you, but he likes to still think he is in the game with other women.
If this bothers you, and it probably should, I think you need to have a polite talk to your husband and explain to him that you feel like he is still "gaming" women and now that he is married to you, you feel neglected. This may be a VERY hard habit to break, so you'll have to be patient, but work with him and hopefully he can reign it in.
Good luck.
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reader, cheers  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Hi. You are doing great,be Happy& be confidence! Have smooth delivery& Enjoy a happy parental. Try to get his attention back, by talking about babies & how he'll going to be & what's the baby name. The point is to keep him busy always
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Some folks are just flirtatious by nature so I wouldn't read anything into it. I get in trouble at times for being what some might call flirting(I call it just being friendly and nice to people) He probably doesn't even know it's considered flirting and calls people sweetie or honey all the time(even in a check-out line?) With all this over-hyped awareness of 'liberated' fems though most of us innocently pass through life in silence now rather that suffer the rath of the "offended" heck I barely everhold a door open any more for anyone!
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