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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've known my best friends since high school and we have always been there for each other, through thick and thin. Even in high school my friends would act funny towards me, sometimes. I am the skinnest out of my friends and unlike them, I have always had both of my parents in my life and has the most fashion sense and clothes so I figured that was the reason for their actions sometimes.Some of their actions were:trying to make me look dumb using a sneaky way or belittling me and sometimes leaving me out of things.If they hung out then they would call or text me to let me know that they are hanging out, without me knowing they even intended to go there. When I would announce good things going on in my life they never seemed sincerely happy for me. So after we graduated from high school we took different paths, but we still kept in touch.I am about to start my 3rd year of college and they both are mothers and didn't go to college. I have continued to still be there for both of them but now I feel like they are isolating themselves from me.They talk to each other on a regular basis and hang out often, without me, and when I announce things going on in my life they don't seem interested. I really feel like our friendship is starting to unravel and become really one-sided.I also feel like in a sense that I can't relate to them any more, because they have children and family responsiblities.Is jealously the reason for their actions or we are growing apart?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 August 2011):
 You are growing apart because your interests have changed. But it really doesn't sound like they were all that great of friends to begin with, I mean trying to make you look dumb or leaving you out, real friends don't do stuff like that to each other. I think it's time to make some new friends.
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