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female
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30-35,
*aybaybay_x
writes:Why has my boyfriend invited this girl to MY party if he never takes me to any of the parties he goes to?My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years and during this period he’s taken me to one party, and one wedding. Nowadays (As he never use to be a party goer until he met his current friends) he is always going to parties with his friends and NEVER invites me. I’ve been given every excuse under the sun.“You’ll be uncomfortable”“I’ll have to look after you”“That environment is not for you”“You don’t know my friends”“You’ll be sitting there, bored”Okay, but everytime he gets invited to another party, he immediately dials his best friend“There’s a party etcetc” and he’s not part of that “group” But he’ll tell me“He’s a boy, he’ll get along with them easier”I’m having an 18th birthday party and he’s just now told me that he was thinking of inviting this girl to his party. (They talk at college but that’s it)I said, won’t she feel uncomfortable? Won’t you have to look after her?He said “Nah,nah she can bring a friend”So can I, right? I said to him, why is it that she gets the treatment from him that I wish for, without even asking like I have to.Also, why bring another girl to my party when you’re supposed to be there for me?He said “I thought you were just going to be nice cos it’s your birthday and everyone welcome. But right now you’re not being a nice person. But anyway, I’m just playing. If I wanted to invite her. I would have done it a long time ago”But that’s not the point in my book. The point is, why should she, and she’s not even like a close friend or that’s what I know of their friendship, get the privilege of being invited to a party when I’ve not been given the same privilege.Recently, I’ve not had enough time for him as it’s the week of my party and usually I’m just always available to him. He said yesterday“This relationships is dead” and I just laughed because I know he’s just talking crap. Then he repeated himself. I laughed again, then he just said he wanted to see what I was going to say.He keeps trying to get to me. or what do you think? Is he feeling a bit worried that he’s losing me as I’ve not been at his beck and call? Is he trying to get me to chase him again? And Am I right in what I’m saying about this girl?
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reader, :)31215 +, writes (16 November 2010):
 I think he's trying to get you to break up with him, so that he doesn't have to do it.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Sorry but it sounds like he's wanting to cut ties. What guy jokingly tells his girlfriend "this relationship is dead", that's not a laughing matter. Not to mention the fact that he's mentioned taking a "date" to your birthday party. You don't take a girl you that's an acquaintance to your girlfriend's party. Rethink this relationship.
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