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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

It's 7 weeks 'til our wedding day, the nearer it gets ~ the more we're arguing. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Its 7 weeks to our wedding day, the nearer it gets the more we are arguing, I have never been married before, never lived with anyone and I have brought up two daughters on my own, always worked. My daughters are mothers, but with their partners but ...

What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake? I have been with my wife for 7 years (married 6) and for the last year or two I have been insanely unhappy. I'm in no way perfect, so I won'...

I love her and care for her, but I feel like I'm being suffocated; I tried telling her this before, but she burst into tears.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - I have always sucked at this part and am not sure what to do... I'm 31 and have been dating a girl for about 15 months now. She's also 31, very nice, and we share a great deal in common. There have been some issues since the beginning of our...

Silly things lead to my boyfriend to distrust me, can I hope that he changes? I have always been truthful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am divorce have an 8 years daughter, after my marriage I stayed single for almost 4 years, then I met my boyfriend online 3 years ago, eventually he moved in with me because I did not want to get married again. The first year was so happy I though ...

My heart is saying take him back, my head is saying I am a loser for thinking of it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - myself and both this guy i like both broke up with out partners for each other our 6 month relationship was one struggle after the next. I gave him 3 chances in that 6 months we broke up about 3 weeks ago and now he wants me back. while we were ...

He cheated and says he is sorry. But is he really?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 3.5 years recently went on a weekend away to Europe with his friends. When he came back I found text messages from a girl he had slept with. He was drinking for 12 hours and he took 3 E tabs that night and remembers nothing at all, ...

We broke up, have had no contact, saw him at a function, he said nothing, just looked at me, and left early, I want to be friends, but cannot bring myself to contact him, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hi there. I am hoping the great agony aunts can help me here. The answers are great and so prompt so thanks in advance. My ex and I had a pretty fiery breakup at the beginning of June. I was upset, he was upset and we have had no contact at all f...

We constantly fight, I am losing interest, he blames me for almost everything, it's getting on my nerves, we are to move in together, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I can't stop fighting with my boyfriend. We've always fought, at least once every other day, for the entire time we've been together. And I mean that, even before we were boyfriend and girlfriend, we were fighting. So now we've been togethe...

My girlfriend never has time for me, it's either her friends, or she is out of town, I am beginning to distance myself, how do I tell her how I feel? he

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Hey, I have an issue with my girlfriend. She's been out of town almost every other week during the summer and when she gets back she wants to of course catch up with her friends and stuff (which I totally understand) but she can never hangout ...

We went through an awful break-up, it's been a couple of months, I want to give it another try, any suggestions, as to how to go about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Dear all, My boyfriend and I broke up in May. We were very much in love, but it was a first real relationship for both of us and was long distance. On top of that, both of us are very conflict-avoidant and dated for a year with the assumption w...

I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...

Knowing she has had one night stands makes me wonder if the rumours about her cheating on me are true...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - i have been going out with my g/f for 7 months now. I love her to bits and am thinking of proposing to her. We communicate really well and one day she told me how many one night stands shes had and how many partners she's had. I even know some of ...

Am I wrong for making my boyfriend stop talking to these girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Alright my boyfrien and i have cellphones when i met him he had girls number and so did I have guys numbers.We didn't start caring untill we started to fall in love. I made him clear out his numbers and i cleared out mine but alot of his numbers ...

My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't find her sexually attractive anymore... how do I deal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is pregnant. She's about 4 months along, and her stomach is getting bigger. I think it's glorious that she's carrying our child but for the past month or so I haven't found her very sexually attractive. I have started flirting with a ...

He's mean to me but I can't leave... what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend, always plays games instead of talking to me, it makes me sad but he always says "oh its jut this one time" he's mean to me a lot too,(I wont go inot details) but im really in love with him and if i even think of leaving i make myself ...

Is asking my boyfriend for oral sex unfair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am a virgin, which my boyfriend knows, but we have had anal. There are a lot of reasons I don't want to have sex with him that I won't include here. But one thing is that he's small in that department (I can't imagine that I would honestly feel ...

How do I stop my jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I'm soo jealous over my boyfriend,how can I stop?...

Why do guys say they love you and then push you away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - why do guys say i love you then do things to push or keep you away?...

Is it normal for the woman to pay for everything in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - okay my boyfriend and i have been together for about three months and i just want to know if its normal for the woman to pay for almost everything. WAIT...i know what ur gonna say "hes a feeloader" "hes not worth it" But i love him with all of my ...

Do Guys Really Just Need Time to Grow Up Sometimes, or Is This a Myth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a guy to just need time to mature, to get to the point where he's ready to be in a real relationship? Or is it the case that, if the right girl comes along, he'll be ready? I dated a guy for a long time. Eventually, we b...

My boyfriend has become abusive and controlling since he found out I wasn't a virgin. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - i need help. there are many people on this site who ask this same question: what should i do my boyfriend is controlling i dont have a life. What should i do? But see, my boyfriend of a year and a half is mentally abusive hes selfish, he goes out ...

Will I become just a sex object for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello I have been having this relationship with this guy, he is wonderful with me, he does everything to please me, we always have great time together, we have been together for a little bit more than 5 months, so when we had 3 months of ...

What should I do about my relationship with my married boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - iam in love with a married turkis man he is great to me and loves me he knows that i dont ave any money and knows that iam a single parent ..and he loves me for who i am hes been the best boyfriend ever ,,he loves me and my daughter to bits ,,iam ...

Should I leave my possessive girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Its not that im scared of a long term relationship, but ive been goin out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and shes always seemed to be a bit posessive of my time. eg. if iw ant to go out ona lads night she would text me every ten minute...

My boyfriend and I disagree over my use of social network sites. Does he love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hey people.am seeking your advice on what i should do.i have a boyfriend but he is not that supportive with me when it comes to me joining any social network in the internet. While him hes there in all the social network.i support him and in all ...