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Will I become just a sex object for my boyfriend?

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Question - (29 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello I have been having this relationship with this guy, he is wonderful with me, he does everything to please me, we always have great time together, we have been together for a little bit more than 5 months, so when we had 3 months of relationship we had sex for the first time, from there to now, the things has got better and better in sex( the sex between us is really great), and we can't get enough of eachother, my biggest fear is that my relationship becomes all about sex, I have talked to him about this and he said that is not going to happen because he has strong feelings for each other. But I am still scare that he started seeing me as a sexual object

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008):

Try stop being so silly. Would you prefer he wasn't that interested in having sex with you!? It sounds everything is practically perfect. I wouldn't try going without sex for a while as that will just send the message you're not so interested.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (29 July 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIt just sounds like the usual way good relationships begin. Great times, great sex that gets better and better, a wonderful guy who does everything to please you - What the heck is wrong with any of that? And as for your last thought, here is the news - We are all someone's sexual object. It works both ways.

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A male reader, Magilla United States +, writes (29 July 2008):

Try going awhile without sex and see where that takes you?

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