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writes: i have a really attractive boyfriend and he always flirts with other girls. everyone seems to fancy him and he likes it. i have been with him for 2 years and i love him like mad but it seems like he would rather be wit other girls than me.all we ever seem to do it sex. we dont talk to each other anymore we dont hold hands under the table any more we dont hug and kis on the back row at the cinema any more. have we just grown up or is it time to move on? i really miss all these things what is wrong?
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reader, lovejunkie  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 You and your b/f are really both too young to expect that your relationship is going to be permanent or serious. Yes, I think he is using you for sex. Do yourself a favor, and cut him loose. And wait until you're much older before you allow yourself to become involved with another guy. Focus on school, college, and a career before you commit to anyone seriously. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Agree with Waterloo. You are much too young to be having sex. Here you are at 13-15 years old, having sexual intercourse with a guy and judging by the way he's treating you, he's basically getting what he wants from you. So I will say, you are wise to question his actions but rather naive to keep allowing it to happen. He is not being intimate because he doesn't have to be. He is getting what he wants and that's---his orgasms, on a regular basis. When a man truely cares deeply for a woman, he wants to snuggle and hold hands and display caring for her. There is no reason for him 'not' to be intimate other than the fact he simply doesn't care. If he also is not taking any interest in your life and your activities, that is a big huge, blinking red flag. If you feel you are being used, then go with your instincts, hun. It means you likely are. Walk away and quit giving him what he wants. And if you ever get into a relationship again, keep your self-respect intact and don't be so willing to jump into bed, right off the bat. Make a guy respect you, for your integrity, for your awesomeness, for YOU. You are worth every bit of hard work and efforts he will have to do, to be in your life. Remember that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): If you are not doing these things at the age that you are, which is young, then i think you should move on. You dont talk??!! Then what is the point of this relationship? Pointless!! So get out now and meet someone else. You are much too young to be having this misery. Get rid.
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