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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why did she lash out at me when I've been good to her? Was I blind and foolish??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi there. I first used this site back in late April when I'd just started seeing a girl I work with. Since then, I've been on a rollercoaster ride of emotions and now I hope I've finally reached the end. So please bear with me. Thanks. I promise...

I work and I pay for everything. Is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - have been with my partner 9yrs he wont commit. i work and pay for all our kids needs, my partners clothes, a lot of the household bills and all new things that come into house. i even paid for the last two cars. i have to live by his rules and iv ...

I lost trust in him and I feel there should be something more solid..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Should I stay or should I go? -This is the fifth year of our relationship -We have a one-year old son -My boyfriend is about 3 years younger than me and not ready to commit to marriage any time soon. I feel our relationship should be more conc...

I think she is bored, with the relationship... should I let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 403 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 14 months. id like to believe that i treat her as well as i possibly can because she is my world. i met her when i was 16 and right when i met her i knew she was the one. we had an incredible relationship ...

I still view her as a threat and it winds me up that she still texts him, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 403 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - last year i broke up with my bf, after we went to my friends wedding as mates, but i still really liked him, one of my friends bridesmaids, her mate, kept tellin everyone how much she fancied my ex which drove me mad. recently and slowly me and my ...

We just don't seem to have anything in common anymore. Is my relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from ...

Over-reacting about the future? Or is breaking up the only answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 403 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for almost a year now, and we've gone through some dynamic ups and downs. About 6 months ago, I decided to do something that he told not do or else he would be break up with me. I didn't cheat, but to him, it felt ...

Losing him once made me realise how much I loved him. But how do I trust again and put the past behind me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 404 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I have quite a complicated situation. It may sound trivial to begin with, but please offer me advice, as I am so confused. I met a J about 18 months ago. I was in a relationship at the time, but it was not a healthy relationship at the time, an...

I thought he would have moved onto someone else....but has he??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hey all, I really need some advice, I'm not sure what to do. I have known this guy for a few years now, but about 12 months ago he text me and asked me out. He is about 23 years older than me. I told him I wasnt interested, but I was still prepared...

He's married but it wont last...either somebody is going to get fed-up or killed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I know I'm probably not gonna like what I hear, but I need to know what you think anyway. Several months ago I started seeing someone, and please take into consideration that we have known each other since childhood, and have since been great ...

Is he showing that we could still be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I split wiv my ex 2 months ago, we recently made friends and I still really like him. The thing is, he seems to be sending me mixed signals and its really getting me down. Every time I see him we stop and talk and he asks me what Im doing at the ...

Do I have reasonable grounds to be feeling insecure and jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 402 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over a year we live together. I just don't trust him and just feel that he's not in love with me anymore. The lack of trust started when we first started dating. I saw on his myspace he was messaging back and ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to trust me. Why does he act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - hi i am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 32. we have a morgage together and i love him so much. i really need the answer to why my boyfriend thinks im staring and flirting at other blokes {young to old, really ugly to good looking} while we are out ...

She spent the evening with a work-colleague the night before she came home but swears nothing sexual happened. Do I trust her less for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years. This morning I found out that she spent the evening with a bloke from work the night before then came home to me. She swears she didn't have sex with him and that they just talked. I don't know ...

We decided to talk less frequently to avoid arguments. Is this the end of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend moved to italy a few months ago, and we were in a really happy relationship. ive been over to visit once and he comes home for xmas soon. recently we've decided we talk to eachother too much, and this is causing us to have arguments, so ...

We are getting married, but he's neglecting me in bed, is there hope I can turn this around?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hello, Well I have a bit of a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we are going to be married in a few months. When we were first together, he was a sensual and giving lover, and did perform oral sex on me occasionally. But as time ...

My gf periodically posts degrading pictures of herself in the net, semi-naked. Do I over react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I have been seeing a girl for a year and a half. She is amazing, but here is my problem. She will periodically post degrading pictures of herself on her Facebook as her profile picture. The first one was of her knealing (or standing, I couldnt...

I can't move on, I can't decide how I feel or what I want or why he's acting the way he is...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hey, I am going through so much crap with my ex boyfriend. I'm 18 and was going out with him for 2 years ..he broke up with me through a text on monday but I was out and had been drinking so i didnt remember reading it ..rang him the next morning ...

Hi alcoholic ex is back on the scene, she's one week sober, now he thinks he wants her back, should I just dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - For the past month I've been dating a man who was once in a relationship w/an alcoholic. the past week she has contacted him, claiming to be sober for one ENTIRE week. I don't know what her intentions are, but he says that now he feels torn between ...

How can I stop being so overprotective??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - My girl says i'm too overprotective of her, can my condition be corrected?...

Should I just completely walk away??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I started dating a man last Oct (2006) that I had been a work acquaintance of for 2 years. He was going through a divorce when we started dating. We took things slowly in the beginning and then after about 3 months he told me he loved me and wanted ...

How can I convince her it wouldnt be a mistake??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hey! here's my question... i been friends with a girl a long time... about 5years now. Over the last couple of months I have started to like her as more than a friend. So i plucked up the confidence to just find out if she liked me back in that way...

How will I know if this relationship is at the end of the road??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from ...

I have a fetish which I am afraid will annoy her: I need her feet to arouse me in any sexual activity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend on and off for the past few years..I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember and i told her about it a few months ago. She didn't mind it, in fact she liked it. But it's a problem because I need her feet ...

I don't want to mess things up with my gf but how can I tell if she fancies me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I have got this girl at work and people say she fancies me but i think we're just friends. She always talks to me and i have fun talking to her and i quite like her but she has a bf who she does say she is having bad times with. The relation...

Is he wrong to say no??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I love to have sex when I have my period but my boyfriend finds it messy and he says he cant feel it as there is no friction. I am not wanting it when I was on fast. I think he should not say no. Please advise....

Why is he like this towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about two months now, but i already know that this is real love, none of my other relationships felt this way. But sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel a bit..odd i guess. He'll say hows much he loves me constantly ...

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with other guys to 'learn new tricks'. Isnt this totally off the wall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i was a virgin when i met my boyfriend so hes the only guy i have ever slept with, given a BJ to, etc, etc. we have been together for nearly 4 years but he ended it the other day and said that he wanted to go on a break and that he wanted me to go ...

I've stopped going to work to please my girlfriend, and now I don't think I want to work anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - This question is a little different to whats normally on here but I hope someone can still help me. The mess im in started a few weeks ago, I work in a nightclub and I work quite a few hours a week, and basically my girlfriend got really annoyed ...

Is she lying to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I met my girlfriend before 1 year and 6 months and i love her so much, in the begining we used to see each other every two weeks. during the first year i am helping her financily all the time and she used to see me when i have to give her the ...

Is it a good idea to 'get it out of his system'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We are best friends first then boyfriend and girlfriend. The number one rule in the relationship is brutal honesty. We are currently taking a break because he is depressed because of work reasons and ...

I want to leave him but I haven't got the heart to upset him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - We have been togeather 28 years. He's been different the past 2 years. Says there is no other woman,But he stopped sex, every thing i say is wrong. If i try to talk to him he calls it an argument. Still wants to controll my every thought and ...

He won't see me unless my parents agree. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I'm 15 and i fell in love with a 21 year old. He loves me for me and doesn't want sex. I want so badly to be with him. I've tried talking to my mom about the situation, but she said no about it being okay to see each other. We can wait until I'm 18 ...

I cant figure her out...when I'm gone she misses me but when I'm around she doesn't want to hang out with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I have been going out with the same girl on and off for the past few years. I can't seem to figure her out. When I'm gone, she yearns for me and wants me badly. But as soon as I come around, she'll make any excuse not to hang out with me. What ...

I thought this guy was different...but the ex txts and he goes running and he lives with another ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - So i have been dating this guy for one month but problem one: he has his ex girlfriend still living with him. problem two: he used to date a lass thats still after him and keeps texting him and wont leave him alone the other day he was with me ...

His ex is pregant with his child, he says he just wants to be in the babies life but what if he feels different when its born??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I fancied this lad from work for eight months but was too scared to ask him out but recently we have been texting and arranged to meet up and he told me he really liked me and has done for ages but was too scared to ask me out. Anyway we had sex ...

How do I control my anger now I'm working with the girl my bf cheated with...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend cheated with a girl I will now be working with she knows who I am and I know who she is.....what can I do to keep my cool....cause ill start thinking and wanna kick her ass!!! We new each other before she messed with him and she new he ...

We broke up, then I found it was my duty to try again - but the time apart has changed things even more, and there are hardly things in common anymore or inspirational conversations. How do I know when it is time to stop trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children ...

The last thing I want to do is leave her but I'm tierd of this drama.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hey, I'm 22 and i really like this girl. We have been seeing each other for about a month and half. I made the mistake of asking her to be my girlfriend after only 3 weeks when her heart is still broke over a lad. She's so the person i been lo...

Moving in with my fiancee was the biggest mistake of my life...and now I only love her as a friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Don't know what to do with the situation that i am in at the moment. Im with my fiancee 2 years, we're engaged about 12 months now, but 6 months ago we decided to buy a house and live together. I feel its the biggest mistake of my life. I dont rea...

She came over...we made out...and now she doesn't seem to want to talk to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I met this female on a dating site. She lives a few minutes from me. We have talked on the telephone and then she called me up and said she wanted to come over. I agreed. We watched a movie and i rubbed her shoulders and lower back. We were talking ...

If he loves me...shouldn't he care how I feel??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals all the time. He says he loves me but i dont know if he means it. He always goes running off to some other girl besides me. Ok one day another girl was crying because she wanted to go out with someone ...

I'm not a material girl but this older guys meaness with money bores me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 and in the middle of settleing my divorce. We've been married for 20 years. I met this man 16 years older than me. I love the affection he gives to me. He's loaded but very mean with money. He wont go out for a meal or spend a bit more...

I love my girlfriend, but she's lying about how she feels!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - hello. i have been going out with my gf whos 17 and im 17 for 23 months today,and i love her and i know some people say that im too young to know what love is.But i know that i love her lots.and a few months ago i split up with her bacause the ...

I'm dumping him, but I'm scared of being single... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am dumping someone soon as he is controlling and tells me what to do. I am scared about being single again as i have had a tough life i though yes finally i have something good but it being snatched away. he has a daughter wit someone else ...

How can something happen when I'm so messed up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 403 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm so screwed up at the moment, I don't really know what to do. I'm being bullied mentally by people who I thought were my friends. They ignore me, blank me out, refuse to talk to me, make little snide comments that only I would understand why they ...

My gf is very confused and thinks that dating other people is the only way to discover the truth of her feelings for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Here is the situation, my relationship with my gf has been great, i realized last weekend that i had been smothering her, by being with her all the time. I mean i don't care what she does with her friends, but when she started dating me they sto...

Will he stop telling me what to do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 30 my boyfriend is 24 we have been dating for a year, I left home at 21 and until three weeks ago he has never moved out of home. We moved in together 3 weeks ago and since then he keeps telling me how to do things, common sense stuff, d...

Is he being too impaitent with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - hi, I met a man on a dating site he asked to get to know me, then i agreed. We have been talking for 1 month and a half now on the phone for hours and chatting on line too for hours. He introduced me to his sister and mum. The problem now is that ...

How can I get our sizzling love back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I've been in a platonic relationship wit my girlfriend for about 5 months now. She adored me very much and always expressed it profusely but after the first 2months,we were kinda seperated by distance because i was doing my IT(student program)in a ...