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Archived questions from: 8 November, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My partner is a cheater, but I have become friends with one of these girls, is this a bad idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Hi i would love to hear peoples opinions on this situation. I found out 2 months ago my partner of 7 years who i have been with since i was 17yrs old and i have a daughter with has been cheating on me with multiple people. One of the girls he has ...

We're both married, but havent had sex, are we just friends for friendship sake?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I have been friendly with a man for the past 4 years. We met through work we both did at the time. We have got closer and closer over the years. In the past year, we spend at least one day, (if not both days) of the weekend or every other ...

Just found out the man I'm living with is still married to someone else, why hasn't he filed for divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I have been living with a man for 7 months now and I am deeply in love with him. We knew each other 30 years ago when I worked with him and his wife. In December of last year, he found my profile on Yahoo and sent me an email. We got together, hit ...

Is he for real this time? Should I take him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - hello everyone! wow i havent asked a question on here in a while so here it goes. okay me and my ex split up about 2 weeks ago. my mom took my phone away so i didnt read any messages but hes been trying to talk to me and asking me to please talk to ...

Why is my husband so unaffectionate and secretive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - A male or expert perspective on this is highly appreciated. My husband of 5 years is not very passionate or affectionate towards me. He hardly ever gives me any compliments, especially not of the type that would make me feel attractive. He does say ...

My boyfriend is busy all the time and doesn't have time for me, what shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I dont know what to do im gettin really depressed.. my boyfriend is ignoring me a lot lately he likes to spend time with his friends more, he was never like this before.. hes busy playing "playstation" with his friends, and going karting. i feel ...

I don't want to be with my fiance any more. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Going to have to put this briefly... I don't think i want to be with my fiance any more. Have felt this way for a long time. One of the main reasons i am still with him is our 1 year old daughter. Our families are one of the main problems. My mum...

Sex is very sacred for my people and not be done without love or at young age. My bf broke these rules. I can't get over his sexual past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old and had my first kiss and sex when i was 18 years old.he told me he's like me. and waiting for the right time, right girl, we didnt even rush things and waited for the "moment" to come. we lasted for 2 years with that guy. b...

I gave up the custody of my grandson as my daughter would have troubled us, the man I was dating has "shut off," how do I stop the the constant heartaches, misery and let downs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I find it hard to ask for help myself though I often help other people, I guess its because Im concerned about being condemmned or made fun of so I hope someone can help. I have had quite a traumatic childhood and adult life so far but things h...

He doesn't want me around when going out with his friends. Am I stupid for being upset by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - ive been with my guy 4 nearly 8 monthes. His best friends are female and i know he wont cheat on me..he's female mates have boyfriends. We all planned to do something on saturday then he asked me if i would be upset if he just go out with them ...

How can I be certain this time??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I am engaged to be married in April 2008. I am having second thoughts because I have not known many people who are happily married for long. I am also divorced so I don't want to make a promise I can't keep (for the second time). But does this fee...

Is he still into me or just using me for pleasure??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I'm sixteen, and been with my boyfriend for two years this sunday. For about a month now, he's sort of not really talking to me, unless I talk about making love to him on our two year anniversary....I know for a fact I'm ready, but I'm scared I'm ...

Why won't he commit to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Perhaps a male perspective, why does my boyfriend need to date others very casually and won't commit to being exclusive yet tells me he loves me and spends a lot of his free time with me? We have known each other for 7 months and dated almost 5...

He doesn't always ejaculate...is it me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a 25 year old girl, I always had a very good and healthy sex life... Here's my problem I have been dating this guy and sometimes when we have sex he does not cum, is this normal? I think he even faked an orgasm once or twice!!!!!. Let me s...

The guy I dumped 5 years ago sends me flirty messages. What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I heartlessly dumped a guy 5 years ago, for selfish and shallow reasons, realising almost straight away that it was a huge mistake but not being in the position to do anything about it. Anyways, he recently broke up with the girl he started seeing ...

My boyfriend's family won't acknowledge me and my boyfriend won't stand up for me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - the man that i have been dating for the last three years is an enabler to his family and also a people pleaser. his family does not acknowledge me. they did acknowledge me until we broke up for a short time back in the summer. they really do not ...

I've realised how much I want to be with her and that I wasnt dealing with our problems...but she thinks we are over.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

8 November 2007 (M) - Hi my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and it's been great, we both love each other very much. However over the last say 2 months we have had a tendancy to have an argument about something pretty silly then get angry at each ...

Is it possible to find somebody who will always be romantic??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Is it possible to find someone that will always be romantic? My boyfriend used to do romantic things for me and he doesn’t anymore. I like to be romanced, and by romanced I mean receiving small little gestures such as cuddling, unexpected kisses, ...

He keeps photos of him and his ex in a special box and doesn't want to throw them out but I don't like this...am I being unreasonable??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I got married in June this year to my gorgeous man who I have been seeing for 5 years. My problem is this ... he has photos of an old girlfriend in a special box including photos of them kissing and he is reluctant to throw them out ... I dont ...

My bf thinks he loves me but the way we started makes me feel worthless.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - My boyfreind thinks that he loves me, the problem is that 1, he has never been in a real relationship before and i think hes just getting confused and thinks its more than it is and 2, the way we started makes me feel like im worthless. What do i ...

During the break-up I saw a side of him that I didn't like/forget. He just proposed now. How to find the strength to walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I am so confused. I am in love with someone that hurt me. He broke up with me and now he is back and wants to work things out. I love him so much but during the break-up I saw a side to him that I didn't like and could possibly never forget. Should ...

Could it be because I am overweight or are there other reasons why he doesn't want to have sex? I feel terrible.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have never really done anything except kiss because i like to always take things slow. I love him and i want to make love to him. I suggested it to him a few times and he said he does not ...

Can someone explain the situation I'm in?? She won't commit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

8 November 2007 (M) - About seven months ago, a girl that I had feelings for back in 99' found me on the internet. when i was talking to her she was about to end her relationship of six years for obvious reasons and she has three kids. our talks over the first month or ...

Vengeful ex-boss is potentially ruining my career.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I live in a USA territory. I quit this terrible six month job a year and a half ago because of a very disrespectful and verbal abusive woman boss, who called herself christian by the way. She felt so rejected when I quit the job she promised me she ...