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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I've slept with this guy a couple of times,I really like him, but I think he only wants to be friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i slept with my 28year old friend twice,i`m 19, i think i`m getting to like him but i think he`s has no liking in that way towards me, well he acts like we are only friends and i act so also. I hardly talk bout my boyfriend to him but he talks ...

My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i ...

My ex is dating my cousin and I am afraid he will hurt her, too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I ...

Should I stay or should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I love my fiance. He does everything for me and my son (who is not his). I feel like everything I do is wrong and he tells me that Im not good for anything. He leaves me alone alot (my family and what little friends I have say Im exagerating). He ...

Is a fear of change normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Hey everyone, Ok, I split up with my partner as we simply fell out of love with each other, we argued and we also didn't make an effort to keep our relationship alive. As a result I am moving out of our shared home (rented) to start a new lif...

I'm confused - why is it so easy for him to stay friends with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My ex BF wants to be friends, I know I am still in love with him, but he has major issues he needs to iron out, I also have some trust issues with him so I really don't see us getting back together. He wants to stay friends and we kind of have to ...

Should I vacate the place just so that his ex feels comfortable visiting their child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - my partner has a 9 yr old girl. he split with the mother 7 years ago, bout a month ago the little girl came to live with us permanantly as the mother said she couldn't cope! anyway its fine (i have benn with my bf 10 months)the mother lives about ...

Should I take him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My ex and I were together for over a year before he had to move back home for work. We were so in love and very happy. I knew though that him and hie ex were still in contact over the phone but thought nothing of it as I tried to deal with the fact ...

She called me a slut. Could he still love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is going out with me but he talks to his ex. him and me been going out 6months, and his ex is that touchy type girl. she lived far away, about 8hrs away. I sadly had to move into dorms for college n mine is 1hr away. his ex just came ...

Should me and my fiance try to start things up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 436 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - M fiance broke up with me just over a fortnight ago, the reason being, she felt I had jealousy issues and did not do enough for her son (even though we do not live together) I tried to get her to change her mind, but when she stated that her ...

Why do men still call the ex, when they have a new gf? It's odd and disrespectful to call the ex on your way to a banquet with your new gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 436 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why do men still call the ex GF, even when they have a new girlfriend. I mean staying cordially is ok, but I think it is odd, and disrespectful to call me on your way to a banquet with your new girlfriend. I also think it is disrespectful to call ...

25, about to get engaged... but still have feelings for me ex. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Im 25. Have been with my partner for 3 years. we met immediately after a messy breakup with my ex of 5 years - who was my first love but completely broke my heart. Im still in love with him but im also happy with my current partner. My ex called me ...

Why won't my ex leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why won't my ex leave me alone? I broke up with him 3 weeks ago and he still texts me to say he misses me. I don't respond. He called yesterday but the caller id said unknown because he knew I wouldn't answer if I knew it was him, so stupidly I ...

My bf is going to see his ex at a wedding, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I'm not sure if I'm looking for people who have been through the same thing, or if I'm looking for advice. Any kind of reply would be appreciated. My b/f of 3 years is very close with his ex girlfriend's cousin. This cousin is getting married ...

I'm moving in with my long distance boyfriend, but now my ex is back, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a long distant relationship with my current boyfriend for 2 years. I am preparing to move to Florida with him within the next couple of months to begin our new life together. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend from 15 years ago, because ...

Should I have a sexual relationship with anyone even though there are ways to prevent spreading herpes? - may have caught it from the current husband, sometimes I resent him for it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I am still in love with my ex husband and I am remarried. We have done a lot to hurt each other in the past. We were young when we got married and he cheated the whole time. I know I am not happy in my marriage now, but I have several things holding ...

He's trying it on with me but he's got a 7 months pregnant girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email f...

I'm back with my ex but I don't feel the same towards him. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up earlier this year after 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that ...

Where do I go from here in terms of staying friends with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Where do I begin? Amidst the end of my summer of 2007, my girlfriend of 3+ years decided to call it quits with me. We had a typical relationship with the usual tumultuous times that any relationships goes through, but for the most part, we enjoyed ...

Why am I still single after 2 years? I feel like life is passing me by. Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - I am so lonely, I find it hard to cope with life. I am 28 and spilt with my ex two years ago, the problem is nobody i meet seems to like me. I feel like I have been single for five years and not two, as i only got back with my ex as I couldnt fin...

My ex won't leave me alone and I'm scared of dating.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - When I was 15 i starting dating a guy who was really nice. We got engaged after just a few weeks, fast I know but we were young. After about 9 months during an argument he hit me across my face. I was really confused at the time I thought he loved ...

Is it best to stay in touch with an ex or break contact totally??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Do you think it's best to keep in touch with an ex in a recently broken relationship? I wrote a lengthy post a short while ago (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-are-doomed-to-be-better-if-we.html) Should I be keeping in touch with my ex, send...

My ex wants to come over for Halloween.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I'm in desperate need of advice! My ex, we still talk a little. He's in a class with me, so it's kind of hard to avoid him. While we were dating I told him about how my family likes to do a lot of decorations for Halloween. Well, he wants to come by ...

Is it worth the gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 438 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i have been loosing interest in my boyfriend for a long time. ive spoken to him about it and tried to do different things but nothing happens. he's letting his appearance go and i no longer find him attractive at all. he hasnt done anything with his ...

I still love my "sort of" current boyfriend, but I'm not sure if our time is over... I'm so ashamed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I have a question I feel very ashamed about. I'm currently in a relationship that has lasted over a couple years. We've been through a lot together, including almost breaking up several times, and breaking up once that lasted a week - overall ...

I hid my son from him, and when he found out he treated me badly and was uncompassionate towards me. How could he??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi I was seeing this guy for over 2 a months.He was saying how I was the girl for him and how much he realy liked me.There was something I kept from him and that was that I had a son. I was quiet lonely before I met him and I wanted the feeling ...

Does he love me, or does he just have separation anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi,I would like to know your opinion on this. My husband cheated on me after 5 years of marriage. We have been separated 3 times since the war started one year deployments. The last time he was gone for a year is when he cheated. Now he is gone a...

How do I get over my high school boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Well im in high school..and i am well aware that high school relationships dont last but you see this guy was different..we dated 4 nine months and at first he reallly showed me he loved me..then he just stopped. he was always chossing his freinds ...

I desperately want her back - what do I need to do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Hi, my gf decided to end our 4 yr relationship about 5 weeks ago. it was a complete shock for me. things were not going that well for past month or so. but then she was acting normal before the break up. i wanted to spend weekend with her to get t...

I need my ex - but my boyfriend can't cope with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hiya i wrote up afew days back about the fact that my bf did not like me being friends with my ex husband although i was clean about it from the start and he was ok now he's changed. This is the link to my last question: ...

Is he trying to get us back in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I probabaly know the answers here but need some validation from others as well. I was seeing a member of management at my job at the beginning of this year. Well, the people at our work started huge allegations about him and I so we stopped immediat...

Should I be threatened by his ex- girl friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Should I be threatened by his ex- girl friend, who called our home line and held the phone(twice tonight). It's a payphone, so I call the phone # and hold the phone (juvenile, yes I stopped), however, she proceeds to curse me then tell me how I'm ...

I left him, and now he won't take me back! I want to make him crazy about me again. Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Please will a guy help me out with this or a girl which has had a similar problem, i'd really appreciate it i need your help! I initially broke up with my ex two months ago. Since then I've realised it was a huge mistake, but now he says he doesn't ...

I want to forget him but can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I send in the question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-cheat-and-we-break-up-now-the.html and after a while, I took the action myself…oops! I know it might not be the best thing to do (probably a stupid thing to do) I got really anno...

Is it wrong to have feelings for your ex's brother??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about 8 months ago because the long distance relationship wasn't working. Anyway I recently met up for a drink with his brother and I think I have feelings for him, he wants to meet again which possibly suggests that he ...

I'm now looking for a 'normal' relationship rather than a long-distance one. Where can I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - Hi everybody. Good news! I'm feeling a fair bit better than I have been over the past.. several months. I guess I finally realized that maybe my ex isn't worth worrying about. In any case, I'm not certain I'm ready to move on as such, but I ...

I feel like I'm only in his life because he doesn't want to be alone after his wife died, am I wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Okay, here goes. MY sisters best friend died four months ago. Her husband left to care for four children on his home spent many a night drinkin and getting high. One night he invited me round and after that night he texted me often and I'd ...

I still want to be friends with my ex, but he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Well, me and my ex's relationship hasen't been going well lately. It all started when i started hanging out with my old friends who can get on people nerves a little bit. And since i've been hanging out with them i guess i've been getting on his ...

I love him! BUT! He's still in love with his ex who doesn't love him, What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - im badly in love with a boy and weve done things together but he still loves his ex (who isnt interested in him). My mates dont like this boy so I havent told them how i feel about him they have no idea how i feel neither does the boy know i love ...

I'm scared he'll leave me and go back with his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - hi there, i dont know what to do ive been with my bf for 1 1/2 years now and its going great but theres one problem, his ex keeps hanging around they were together for 4 years and she just wont leave us alone, i recently found out that she has been ...

Should I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship with a man who was seperated in November 2006, moved into his apartment March, 2007. We started dating in May. I truly believe I found my soul mate. In love like never before and he tells me the same. However, ...

Why is my ex still calling if he dumped me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - i was with my ex-bf for 6 years and he broke up with me because of our constant fighting. i think he just didnt love me. since our break up, 1 year ago, he still calls every 2 weeks, why? i asked him not to call if he was seeing anyone. when i p...

I don't want to waste my time if he still loves another.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid your answers are really helpful. well can u help me wit tis one? in a few weeks time my bf will be going back to his home town and i know if ma bf see his ex gf again they will definatly get back together coz i know he still loves her ...

My ex is deluded how can I get rid of him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - My ex called and left a message to tell me he was mailing me my stuff (we used to live together). Anyway, a few days ago I told him to stop calling me because he just kept it up. He agreed to leave me alone unless I contacted him. Well, I contacted ...

He knows how to make a girl feel wanted when he wants, last time we met though he called me very nasty names. Should I get back with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - hiya xxxx i'm 14 and i just wanna know if there's chance of me nd my ex gettin bk togetha!!!!! i was seein him for about 3 months or sumthin which is quiet a long time but nayway we split up about 3 days ago and i was the one who ened it and have...

Am I crazy to be irritated by this whole situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's ex girlfriend (whom he was with for 3 yrs) prior to me, asked him to "cosign" a $10,000 student loan for her. Personally I think its just another way for her to hold on to him and stay present in his life, so they have "reason" to ...

Yeah, I'm hot for teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Hello, I have a prob! okay so yeah theres this amazing guy who is incredible he is the sweetest and the funniest dude i know! but... here it comes! hes my teacher!! i hate it so much!! i mean why cant i just have a crush or whatever on a boy that is ...

What is his ex playing at?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - will make this brief as really its a v long story! been dating my bf 10 months, in love etc, live together! he has a 9 yr old, split wi the mother when he was 2, seen her regularly weekends and hols! mother couldn't cope, 3 weeks ago literally ...

I feel she is inconsiderate to me as concerns her relation with her ex, and others have noticed too she's putting me in an incomfortable position. Am I being unreasonable/jealous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - I met a great girl 8 months ago. We get on fantastic. But a little problem is starting to put tension and barriers between us. we have run into her ex b/f on a number of occasions. On the first occasion at her local pub she chatted with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - why did my ex husband say he wanted to get back with me,after a year then i said give me abit of time to think,and i said ok lets give it ago and he said its to late he has found someone else and wants to be with her.the new women told me she was no ...