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41-50,
*retal
writes:Should I be threatened by his ex- girl friend, who called our home line and held the phone(twice tonight). It's a payphone, so I call the phone # and hold the phone (juvenile, yes I stopped), however, she proceeds to curse me then tell me how I'm not wanted anywhere? I don't want to create friction between me and him,yet I don't want to be made a fool of. I have suspected he had been meeting her on various occations,yet I want to continue to trust him.Please help lil o confused me! Thanks, Hope to get some good feedback. Gretal
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): Yes this woman is trying to set seeds of doubt in your mind. Why not invite her around for a meal to talk it over. Then you and your boyfriend can show her a solid united front, without raisng your voice and send her packing once and for all.
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (27 October 2007):
 I believe that if she and he had something going on she wouldn't have to call you and say bad things to you. I think she does this because she has lost him and does this to you because she is hurt and want him back.
My advice would be to not interact at all with his ex. Don't talk to her or try to figure anything out. She is probably very hurt and you will never be able to trust her becuse whatever she says is only out of her wanting you to disappear out of his life. Don't believe what she says. You will only be hurt too and your mind will be messed with. Then you should make it clear to your boyfriend that he must do something to stop her from harassing you and that he must be honest to you about what is going on between them. If you feel he is not done with her yet and that he has a hard time moving on from her, then maybe you can suggest you two have a break until he has made up his mind. Because if he wants to be with you, he must make his mind up, you deserve that.
I hope you will sort it out, wish you luck!
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