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female
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30-35,
*ustagirl18
writes:Please will a guy help me out with this or a girl which has had a similar problem, i'd really appreciate it i need your help! I initially broke up with my ex two months ago. Since then I've realised it was a huge mistake, but now he says he doesn't think he wants to be in a relationship anymore.However, everytime I've seen him we've ended up being together and he always makes the first move. I've not seen him and hardly spoken to him for two weeks now. I really want this guy back, my question is if you were in the guys shoes what could the girl do to completely blow you away again? What steps should I take to try and win him back? I want him to realise why he fell in love with me and thought I was amazing in the first place. The only problem is that our paths never cross unless we arrange to see each other. So should I call him once in awhile and arrange to see him? I know he isn't interested in any other girls. We always had great sex, I have considered just turning up on his doorstep seducing him and leaving? I already told him exactly how i felt about him and that didn't have the right effect i think i just came across as desperate and put too much pressure on him, so i need a different approach. I want to make him crazy about me again so what should I do i'm open to any suggestions? Thanks for your time
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (27 October 2007):
 hi.
from my point of view, it would be very difficult, because if i was in a relationship, and my partner suddenly ended it, all the trust and love i had for that person would just vanish, the pain and suffering would prevent me from going back to that person, because in the back of my mind there would always be that fear of being hurt again, i think because we alway read and reply to woman in this situation people forget that men have feelings too, and if i am hurt by some one i am unable to forgive them, for the emotional pain they have caused me.
sorry this is just my opinion.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 October 2007):
 It's not that he doesn't still love you. From what I can tell from your post you still make him crazy. The reason he's not getting back with you is because he's scared of being hurt again. You need to make a gesture to make him realise he can trust you again. The gesture you choose is dependent on something that means something to the two of you. Show him you love him and that you can be trusted not to hurt him again and then don't hurt him again.
CD
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