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writes: Dear cupidLast year I dated a guy for a few months and I didn't really take it that seriously. He went away to work for a few months and he planned to come back to where I was living. Anyway while he was away, I broke it off. We still kept in contact by texting for four months and now he has a new girlfriend and I am so jealous and he's still texting me. He says he's happy but why is he still texting me? We now live in different countries so that doesn't help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): You still care deeply but you have to realize there are many barriers for this relationship to continue.There is the distance and.. one very important aspect..he already has a girlfriend. Obviously, staying in contact with him is very upsetting for you and it's hard for you to move on. No one is forcing you to speak to him..so cut him loose, hun. Tell him this and then ask for no further contact. If he doesn't respect your wishes, then block him and/or delete him. You have choices in life and when someone is possibly just using you to 'massage his ego and make him feel wanted'(because this is what it is) then you get smart and proactive. Don't tolerate it. Think with your head..not your heart, dear. Get out there and meet other people. Good luck
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reader, mary +, writes (27 January 2006):
mary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked him, does your girlfriend not have a problem with you texting me and he said no "She knows we're good friends" which I thought was pretty werid. I am moving on so i'm not waiting by the phone so maybe all we need is time and i NEED A NEW boyfriend!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): Why would he keep texting you? Because you dumped him and now he's sooooooo happily coupled? Is it maybe because he likes making you jealous? My advice: don't give him the satisfaction.
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