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writes: Went out with this guy for almost ten years, and then broke up for six because he cheated on me. We became friends for about one year, and he expressed interest in having a serious relationship again. I decided after a year that I wanted to try to have a relationship. Then he told me that we would like to try to work it out with his ex girlfriend which he broke up with one year ago. Since then he still calls me from work, and wants to meet as friends. I can't get over him, I can't stop thinking of him constantly and it sucks. I'm in love with him. Should I maintain a friendship or should I tell him that he is a liar who doesn't deserve my friendship? Please help. I am very tormented.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (30 January 2006):
 This guy does not sound deserving of your love. You seem to be #2 on his list, so when nobody else is around, he looks you up.
The fact that he has cheated on you tells me how selfish and thoughtless he really is. He sounds insecure in that he feels he needs to be in a relationship. He has no regards for your feelings, does not appreciate what a good thing he has, and is taking you for granted.
If I were you, I would tell him just how I felt (though you are probably wasting your breath), and I would not tolerate his behavior any further. Then I would lose all contact, and give him a taste of his own medicine. Dont waste your precious time trying to prove your love to someone who is SO not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2006): Just be honest with him, say what you feel and tell him, that it is a pain to hear about his love to someone else. Ask him to not contact you again. You'll do it when you will get over him. It is going to take a long time Darling, but keep you self busy and you will see... out there is someone who feel the same way about you.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (30 January 2006):
 Deep down you know what you have to do, yu have even told me, ditch him and move on, painful as this is prolonging the agony will do no good, he is not interested in you in the way you want him to be. He does not know what he wants and with you he gets the best of both worlds as he has you dangling under the title of "friend" while he works through his love options.
Do`nt let him do this to you, the sooner you tell him the sooner you can start to get over him and meet someone who deserves you.
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