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I still have feelings for my ex who is the Mother of my sons. But I'm married now to someone else!

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Question - (30 January 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2006)
A male , *enney writes:

My Xwife and i were married at a young age. We were married for six years and together maybe 2 yrs of the six.Currently we have been divorced for 9 years and I am currently married to another for 8yrs.I am not happy in my marriage and find that I still have very strong feelings for my x who is also the mother of my two sons. We have recently started talking and we both feel the same way. What should I do? Please help me with advice. Thanks.

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A male reader, Dazzerg United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2006):

Dazzerg agony auntI would advise some caution here. Having feelings for ex's is common and to a degree natural, especially if she is the mother of your son's. That will always give you something special in common.

You don't mention your feelings for your current wife except to say that you are unhappy in the marriage, nothing about your feelings for your wife as a person. However, you have been together for 8 years so i assume that you must have strong feelings for her.

Be sure of your feelings before you actually do anything. Is it possible that your current unhappiness is making you look on your past with a fond eye? Cross-examine yourself and your feelings for both your ex and current wife. Look hard before you leap.

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