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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend went back to his hometown for christmas break and while he was there some girl kissed him. he swears that he didn't kiss her back and that he left right afterwards but i don't know what to do or think about this. I want to completely trust him when he tells me that he didn't kiss her back but a small part of my brain is telling me that since i wasn't there i can't know what really happend. i hate that part of my brain and i want it to shut up but now it's already planted a seed of doubt in my mind. i love him so much and i know that if i break up with him it'll kill me too but i'm so confused about what to do. please help me. i don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): and i almost forgot. decent 1 is kinda of on the right page but then again if he cheats on you one then he is a cheater/lier whitch means that even though he promises he won't do it again he probably will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Wow that’s some awesome advise up there girl … I would say he’s right,
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Look buddy,
I don't want to disturb you further but i am a MAN, and no girl can Kiss me if i don't want.. Did the girl overpower him or What.? And what's this about him not kissing back? A kiss is a kiss.. If if didn't want her to kiss him he could have pushed her away..
I'd say he is Guilty.. He cheated on you, but since you love him so much you should accept it and talk to him and ask him to promise you anything of that sort won't happen again..
Sometimes it is BEST to accept what has happened rather than trying to overlook it.. Tell him not to repeat it and forgive him this time..
G'day
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