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writes:Hey, there is a girl who i have liked for a long time, the issue was she has a long term boyfriend. I was there for her when she was going through any rough patches etc. We get along really well we went places together etc. We would send flirty texts etc and she said to me she was really tempted by me and really wanted to get with me other than she had a boyfriend. One night then after a party (we were slightly tipsy but not drunk)it was just her and i sleeping in a room together when we made out properly. Ever since however she has been backing off from me, i mean she still talks and we get on really well, but that level of intamacy doesnt seem to be there. She seems to be trying to get more serious with her boyfriend since. I however still really really like her. Im not sure what to do. Does this look like she doesnt like me in that way now? Im not sure what to do next because like i said i still really really like her. Any help or advice is very much appreciated :)
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reader, chicoonacrusade  +, writes (5 January 2009):
Definitely agree with pinkey.
Respect their relationship. If she really wanted you that bad she would have left him for you. She feels bad for what she did so she is focusing on the guy who has been there for her THROUGH those rough patches you are talking about. Go to a club or something and find single women. There are plenty.
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reader, pinkey1981 +, writes (5 January 2009):
Sorry to be blunt and dont take this as being mean, but ...STOP IT!!. She has a BF. Respect that or lose her respect. She realizes she made a mistake by you guys doing what you did. Shes getting closer to him cause she feels like she betrayed him. Be her friend. Nothing more. Be there when she needs you for support and if they dont work out be there for her and maybe youll get your shot.
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