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How do you masturbate to make it feel good?

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Question - (5 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *oco123 writes:

How do u finger yourself to make it feel "good" i guess?

xoxo *thanks*

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2009):

what alot of guys don't realise is that we can't finger ourselves as well as what a guy can, simply because sometimes we can't reach in as deep as someone elses fingers. but i do believe that women need to learn more about finding how to orgasm through the vagina, rather then just the clit. there are too many women who dont achieve orgasm through the vagina, but if we spent abit more time there we would find nice areas that feel good. abit like when you circle the clit and rub on certain areas of it. also i find running a hot bath does not always work for me, it just makes me feel sleepy. the best thing to do is just lay down and think of one of your fantasy's and then imagine it. also adult erotic romance novels are good, as you can really imagine yourself as the woman in the book. just do whatever works for you.everyone is different and has different ways of feeling good.

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A male reader, chrissa United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2009):

im male but i seem to think that everybodys preference is different there for nobody can tell you what feels good but can advise you on how to find what makes you feel good. What i would suggest is run yourself a nice hot bath a few salts and relaxing aroma. Basically pamper yourself. Thenjust start to touch your whole body rubbing gently squeezing whatever you feel necessary to please yourself. then make it the last place you explore and the sexual tension will be that little higher making the experience that little bit more memorable, then its about you gently and slowly rub away at your clitoris now you need to experiment try different paces press a bit harder and discover what you like most. Follow a similar procedure again slipping your hand towards your vaginal entrance 1 finger first slowly push in as far as is comfortable and gently press with the pad of your finger as to create friction most women like this another technique would be to have your finger fully inserted gently create some in out movements and using the back of your finger gently press down on the bottom of your vagina this is where most friction takes place and is there for highly pleasing to a female. I hope ive managed to help GOOD LUCK!!!!

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