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Am I big enough?

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Question - (28 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm about 5.5 inches, maybe a little smaller but I was wondering (as i am a virgin) if I'm big enough for vaginal sex with my girlfriend? And what position would be best for my length to get the most in?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011):

"Good sex comes with practice, and not with penis size or length."

I would only add that it needs to be "practice with someone you care about who cares about you" to get the best sex.

This is the best advice that anyone could ever give you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011):

5.5 is big enough for most women. Thickness is usually more important. Best angle I have found for deepest penetration is missionary with her legs bent toward her armpits. But women have different anatomies. One woman I was with I went deepest with doggy style. Going deep isnt always what is most satisfying for a woman tho, and in fact, for some women, its painful.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (28 January 2011):

chigirl agony auntEverything is big enough for vaginal sex, I don't understand what you're asking for. Everything that can go in will go in... it's not a question of whether or not it's possible. Its rather a question of you trusting yourself a little more and not worry about your penis size. As you start to have sex you will soon understand that your size will be the last of your concern. The female body works in a very different way from that. Our most sensitive areas are NOT inside our vagina, contrary to teenage boy beliefs. And the old saying is correct, size does not matter.

You can't really ask these questions as they are irrelevant to how to get great sex. Getting most of your penis in can be done in for example the doggy style position, where you are behind her. But that doesn't meant the sex will be better. Good sex comes with practice, and not with penis size or length. You need to focus on what your girlfriend enjoys and feels comfortable with, and listen to her. That's the only way to make her feel great and have good sex.

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A male reader, Dataluke United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2011):

Dataluke agony auntDude, your bigger than me! Me and my girlfriend have very productive sex in as many positions as we can think of.

Your size is just right, you don't need to worry about it at all, trust me.

Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about it.

All the best, Dataluke.

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