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Sex: Help and advice

Sex hurts my GF and I ran out of oral things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - hi there me and girlfriend have been together for 6 months now. it is great but everytime we have sex she has pains in her vagina. we can only do missionary and i was wondering if i am doing anything wrong or am i trying to rush to fast and shud ...

I have no regrets but she does! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hi all was at a convention and after a wild party a long time acquaintence and I both wound up together and had sex. I made sure that she understood that we where like 2 shops passing in the night, and nothing would come of this after. We are both ...

I have hidden the truth/lied to the love of my life for 2.5 years. Can this be salvaged?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - The love of my life, and I met and began dating about 2.5 years ago. We seemingly had similar expectations and values despite our very different upbringings, and insane chemistry. About a week into our relationship she was told that I had previously ...

My boyfriend smells down there. Why, is this normal, and can it be changed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Before i start, im a girl, im 16, i have been with my boyfriend now for four months and i am really happy with the way things are going but here it goes... So, my boyfriend is a year older than me, he isn't very experienced, I am the first girl h...

I knew I was going to regret BJ from my GF, and I do. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I ...

BF says I should be okay that he goes on trips alone with former lovers. What should I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I hate rules in a relationship and I trust my boyfriend very much, and trust that he wont ever cheat. But he enjoys to go on alone trips with other female friends of his, where they will sleep together in a small tent (shoulder to shoulder) or be ...

I need more affection from her. How do I tell her without upsetting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for seven years and sometimes we go through these stages where the affection, mainly the sex runs dry. For example,we went from having sex on a regular basis to literary nothing. It leaves me in an awkward position...

Should I get sexually involved with my 66 year-old boyfriend's son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - i was dating this 66 year old man. now i want to have sex with his older son. The father doesn't know. im just talking to his son on the internet. The son wants me to come to his place were he stays with his kids. I told him i would never ...

How can I get my sexually shy BF to put the moves on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend isn't very confident when it comes to anything like kissing me, putting his arms around me ect. He's not normally shy but I know he is with this. At first he even needed prompting to hold my hand! When we kiss it's normally me who ...

I fell for the wrong guy. We had a fight and I am a mess. What does this all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I knew this guy for 7 months now. We started seeing each other 5 months ago. He's 33 and I'm 27. When I first met him he was getting himself out of trouble that he got himself into 3 yrs ago with the law. I have a son and he has 3 kids with 2 ...

Seeing LDR BF soon. I'm stressing that he won't like my body. How can I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy I haven't seen in person in 2 years. He tells me that he loved my body when he saw me last (we were not together at that point, I learned this after the fact) and I am the same size now that I was then ...

I want fun sex with multiple guys and girls, with no attachments and no one getting hurt. Where's the harm in that? Are my friends right to tell me not to do it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hi there, I've got a problem and it looks like this. I am bisexual, I am young and I need my freedom. I've gotten out of a long pretty sexless monogamous relationship and I am not ready to involve myself in some "serious" stuff again. I just...

I don't think he will try anything. Is it okay for me to hang out with my 36 yr. old neighbor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm 16, and i've had a 'crush' on this guy that's 36/37 for a very long time, he used to be my neighbor however about 2 month ago he split from his wife for reasons that i still don't know of and he moved out and now has his own place. Anyway...

Any tips on making French kissing a little more enjoyable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over 2 months now. We’ve always taken things reasonably slow with us and we didn’t kiss on the lips for about a month. Over the last week we’ve been kissing more often but we never do anything more than brief ...

8 years together and now he hates sex and the thought of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 8 yrs. We've been through more (bad) problems than anyone I know. We ended up homeless for almost 2 yrs, went through the loss of eachothers dads together, have had many family members on both sides impose ...

LDR first meeting. I was on my period. Did that put him off oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Does knowing your partner just came off her period put you off going down on her? Im in a LDR and went to see my bf a couple weeks ago. When I arrived I happened to get my period on the second day (I have irregular periods due to a medical condit...

I want to see the prostitute again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I lost my virginity to a prostitution and feels like going to it again. Is it safe? But I feel guilty too. Please help me....

My gf thinks I'm 22 but I'm really 16! Should I tell her??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Im a 16 year old boy , but i've been living a life of a 22 year old. I smoke cigarettes and booze. And i dont look my age. I look like a guy in 20's. I got a girl's phone number from my friend and fell in love with her through the phone. After ...

Should I be worried that my FWB partner is getting tired of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - I've been having this friends with benefits relationship, no strings attached with a co-worker (he works in the same building, we don't actually work together)for a couple of months now. I know I'm probably too old for that kind of "relationship", ...

Are girls meant to have an orgasm every time they have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hey everyone Short little question: are girls meant to have an orgasm whenever they have sex? or does it depends on their mood, situation, size of penis?...

We fought on Valentine's day and our sex life is still suffering!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - DearCupid: My name is Leighton and i am 41 years old. On the 14th of feb my wife and i got into a bit of a problem in our marriage where i took everything for granted and never showed any interest in her needs. Its been a rocky road since then but...

She said "DO U WANNA"? Is she asking me out or does she just want to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Okay so my girl best friend and I are really great friends. Last 5 months, She told me that she's Bi and I told her that I'm bi too. So today, Things got kinda awkward.. We were chatting online and she kept telling me this question like DO U WANN...

I masturbate...is this a sin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - i am a christian that does masturbation all the time because my husband is away is this a sin? am i cheating on him i feel guilty when i finish how can i stop i need help pls...

Am I weird or is this a normal fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, I'm very new here and have always considered myself somewhat of a "freak" because of this. Ever since I was young when I had an operation and was put to sleep, I find myself aroused when I see pictures of myself asleep and even now I g...

I am 13, gay, and I'm having anal and oral sex with my boyfriend. Is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - I know people say don't have sex until your married,but im 13 and me and my boyfriend are planning to spend our lives together, so I gave him oral sex. We both enjoyed it so I let him perform anal sex on me. It was painful but the best night of my ...

How do I come out if I am gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - Hello.I am 13 years old and I know im gay, but how do I come out? I have a boyfriend but we don't show our love at school because we are scared of being teased by other students. My parents don't know either. The only time we hold hands or kiss is ...

He's bored with me when we are not doing anything, like having sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our 20s and have dating for about 18months…. I sometimes feel as though my boyfriend doesn’t take me seriously. He is a very smart, fun, well-rounded, down to earth person who has a lot of friends. I love him a lot. ...

Unerotic water sports?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - A girl I'm seeing is wanting me to pee on her. I know lots of people will do this for the erotic pleasure, but she insists that this isn't the case for her. She says its more about the intimacy of it. I'm a little confused by her reasoning. Anyone ...

Guys, do you only go down on a woman you are really into?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Guys, do you only go down on a woman youre really into-- your gf or someone you care about/love? or do you do it just for fun or for reciprocity?...