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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Am I asking too much from him? I feel sad and confused and unloved.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping you can give me some advice or even help me get my heart and brain around me and my partner... It will be 2 years this month for our relationship, we should still be in our honeymoon stage wouldn't you think.. I feel unworthy...

Husband is impotent and no idea why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - What would you do, if your husband , suddenly becomes impotent , but you don't know why? My husband got impotent ,pretty suddenly ,after he lost his erection middle of intercourse a few years ago . Since than , he can;t get a normal erection....

Condom or No Condom, Which feels better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, is your amount of pleasure decreased at all by use of a condom? Or do you get the same amount of pleasure either way? Have you ever done it with a woman who used a female condom? What is your best description of the physical sensation when ...

Do men ever do this during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Do men ever like to press the head of their penis against their partner's clitoris, and rub it up and dawn hard?...

I'm ready but do I want to lose it just yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Ok ill try and keep this short. Im a Male of 16 years of age and still in secondary school. In year 7 - 8 I went out with a girl who i really like and to be honest i havent liked anyone as much as i have liked her. I recently found out that she ...

I'm not sure I should be using the medicine doctor gave me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, need some advice, I'm starting to feel really down and depressed. Last year my doctor changed my contraceptive pill to Yasmin, saying that for my age (I'm 18) that it would suit me better. For the last year I have suffered from thru...

I want to lose my virginity before my next birthday, but there's still no one special in my life.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - This is rare nowadays, I know, but I am still a virgin at 31 years old. I've had opportunities to have sex before, but I didn't act on them because I promised I wouldn't have sex with just anyone. I don't regret that promise, but here I am, at 31 ...

I lied. How can I pretend to be good in bed with no experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - So i've told all my group of friends that i'm not a virgin and they all think i'm good in bed, i've never said i am but for some reason i let off that i am. The thing is theres this one guy in my group of friends who i really like and he likes me, ...

GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but ...

Questions about intercourse and condoms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, when you have sex and are using a condom, do you get more pleasure out of putting it on yourself, or would you prefer she was the one who put it on? Also, when having intercourse, do you ever feel the head of your penis touching her ...

I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ...

Girlfriend has broken my heart. I don't know how I am going to cope. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I just found out that my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me 3 days before we took a trip to Texas to meet my family. We get back and she continues to go out every night (shes 21 Im 30). She comes home 3 nights ago wasted and refused to tell me ...

Should I marry her while I still have this desire to be with men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - I have a lovely girlfriend. We've been together for a few years. I want to married her and start a family soon, but there is a problem. Back when I was in my twenties, I made a very bad decision that landed me in prison for almost a decade. While I ...

Men, do you like to kiss the vulva during foreplay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Are there any men here that like to kiss the vulva during foreplay? If yes, you get a lot of pleasure out of it? When you do, do you give short quick pecks, or longer ones?...

I want a threesome my wife doesnt, but she's already been in one!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Here's the problem: I want to have a threesome. My wife does not, though she has had them in her past (before me). She also has a far more extensive sexual past than I have. I'd love to add more partners in the future, but I am willing to forgo ...

Bizarrely Friends With Benefits

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hello, fellow DearCupid users! Okay, my situation is a little complicated...I met this guy online, and crazy as it sounds we really hit it off straight out the gate - our first conversation over IM went on for 7 straight hours - so we arranged t...

Boyfriend's job takes too much out of him for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a professional MMA fighter. We have been dating for 6 months now and we are so in love. But, recently we have been having a lot of problems. We fight all the time and we DO NOT have sex anymore. It's been about 2 months since we ...

I can't get off with a partner

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - I cant cum or ograsim during sex. I have had multiple partners (sexually) and i have never been able to get off. I have no problem getting myself off but when it comes to having sex or fooling around i just dont get off. I have no problems been ...

Married a month and haven't had sex yet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - i got married a month ago me and my partner dint have sexual contact yet..we do foreplay..but before inserting the penis he is loosing his temperement... how to get into mood and stagnant in that and how to keep penis erect for long time.. ...

I'm afraid his large penis is going to hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 6 months and we are very close. we have discussed sex and contraception and all that and we both feel ready and comfortable enough with each other to have sex. but he hasa very large penis ad i'm ...

What are the duties of a mistress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Hey there! So heres the thing, my boyfriend wants me to be mistress, I've never done that. We're both new to this idea but he is ready for anything. Please help me by suggesting what I should do as a mistress? I would appreciate it! Btw, he said he ...

My girlfriend told me she had a threesome. Now I want to know with whom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend while being blunt tells me that before meeting me that she previously had a threesome. Should she tell me with who? She brought it up and now I feel like it is a curiousity that will not go away. Should she tell with who or should I ...

I usually date skinny girls, my girlfriend is bigger. I'm worried I won't be attracted once she's naked!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Okay so this is a rather simplistic question. I am 16 dating a girl a month younger than me; just to provide you with an age. I usually only date girls who are pretty skinny but I recently fell in love and am dating my best friend who is a little ...

How to please him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - What are some good positions or things to do to make the guy feel good sexually? ...

He can't keep up with me sexually, should he get his testosterone checked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - how do I ask my man to go to the doctors and get his testosterone level checked? I feel like this is the problem he is having sexually he is only 28 but he is really having a hard time. We are still fairly young I am 23 and like I said he is 28, I ...

Seducing my aunt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

6 April 2011 (M) - Alright, excuse the misleading title. She's not my aunt by blood, so we are only related through marriage. She always acts so kind toward me and I get extra long hugs at family gatherings a couple times a year. She seemingly favors me over my other ...

Can this impossible love happen? Is it true you should set them free if it is meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Well here it goes ... I have been seeing this man for 4 years .. We never talked about our relationship other than 95% non verbal negotiations and 5 % verbal negotiations. he has been honest so far even though he screws up almost but never hides ...

Is it true that you're a slut if you have big labias?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Im officially freeking out. Im in a LDR and ive been with my bf in real but we obv spend more time online together. Well i dont remember what happened but my bf turned round to me and was like im gonna make up somethin about u then and tell so...