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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Can you be fingered with trousers on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend wants to finger me, and i want him too but i hate the look of my vagina, i get spots on it and marks when i shave, i hate it, can you be fingered with trousers on?!! ...

He said I was tight. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hello. Basically my problem is that I'm seeing this guy, we're not properly together, but we're very close and we've told each other that we love one another. I'm in my last year of school, I finish all together for study leave in a weeks time, I'...

Girlfriend doesn't want sex because of bad sex she had in the past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been getting really intimate for just over 6 months. When we were talking I brought up sex and she said that she didn't want to. I totally respect her and wouldn't want her to do anything she didn't want to do. But it was ...

Boyfriend said I was really tight, will this be a problem the first time we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend who is 19 have been dating for about 7 months. We have talked it over and feel that we are both ready for sex. I'm a virgin while my bf is not so we thought starting with oral sex etc would ease me into it and ...

Unhappily married, and emotional affair partner wants to take it to the next level. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Help! I am afraid I will cave under pressure. I have been in an emotional affair with a married man for many months. I am also married. Neither of us are happy in our marriages but we both have children and stay because of them. I have not felt att...

I think it missed her, but I am still worried that it could have gotten her pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had sex last night, we wore a condom but I decided to pull out just in case. I eventually ejaculated 5 mins later from a handjob. Most of my semen landed on me or the bed whilst my girlfriend said none of it landed on her. She ...

Did I correctly do a hand job if he had precum, even though we ran out of time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - i gave my boyfriend a handjob for the first time the other day. he never actually ejaculated as we ran out of time, but there was precum. does this mean that i did it right and he enjoyed it? thanks x...

He got his ex pregnant and it hurts to think about it. Not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Okay , me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 4 months, 1 year ago (on our 4 months) he cheated on me with his ex :( and got her pregnant......... At first he was denying that it was his like crazy and after the baby was born we got a ...

Are my dark "bits" as pretty as a white girl's to my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I am black and my partner is white. I have seen some of the porn he uses and they have white women in them, and they all have very...pink, light skinned vagina's. Of course, as I am black, I am much darker down there and I feel insecure. Are whit...

Sex starved by wife. Is it ok for me to find a similarly sex starved lady available for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Been married for 11 years. hardly have sex with my wife because she is hardly ever in the mood or want me to have sex with her. Have to content with secret masturbation many many times. Have never had sex with another person except my wife since ...

How can I get the friction I need during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I have always had trouble reaching orgasm through intercourse but can do so by using sex toys (whether vibrating or not). I have found that I need the friction that toys provide in order to achieve orgasm where with an actual penis, it seems that ...

Three months of our marriage and no sex yet..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - im 28 yrs old..my husband liked me very much before marriage and used to talk a lot about sex on the phone.. he even tried to take me out but i never allowed.. he used to get al excitd on the phone nd use to tell me what hes going to do when ill be ...

Will my strange body movements during an orgasm turn off a guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - This is kind of an embarrassing question for me. I haven't had sex in my relationships yet, but when I'm on my own (meaning masturbating) I feel that when I orgasm I squirm too much up until when I arch my back becoming stiff, and my lower body ...

Many random hookups have spoiled my interest in sex and my faith in true love.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I don't think i can ever love a guy. I have hooked up so many times that i dont even enjoy romance or a simple kiss. Kissing doesnt turn me on like it used to, b/c im not doing it with guys i even like....I feel lost, confused and impatient because ...

Are we too physically intimate too fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, and we have been together for about two months. We live in NYC. We started kissing and making out a while ago and now its almost the only thing we do. I spend a lot of time in his room, especially at night, and while...

I'm being pressurized into marriage because my GF whom I never really loved, got pregnant and had our baby, by lying to me about using birth control..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Hello. I am in a spot of bother. I had been going out with a girl long distance for about a year, we moved in together and I was pretty sure then that it wasn't true love. After about 6 months, when she was telling me she was taking contra...

Should I break the news to my parents about my having sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - for some backround info: i'm 18 and i have a 26 year old boyfriend. we have been dating since october 5th and on valentines day told me he was in love with me. i have just recently began staying over at his house. my parents have many issues w...

I asked him to wear a condom and he was "offended" that I didnt trust him! Now he doesn't want the relationship anymore!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I first met this guy in summer school...i didn't have any classes with him...but from the very beginning he started showing signs of interest...afterwards I think it was in September when he added me on face book...he kept on commenting on my posts ...

I find the thought of hooking up with guys repulsive. Does this mean I am gay or bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - I feel like somethings missing. I don't know what it is, but I have an idea. It's just that every time I see couples, I wish I could have a girlfriend. I also am confused. I mean, I'm sure I'm Bi Sexual, but the sexual thought of guys is just... ...

My BF doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage. Should I stay or leave??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and he's 19, I'm 18 and he doesn't believe in sex until marriage but I don't think I'm ever going to be ready for marriage and I don't want him to compromise his morals for me so, what I'm asking is if ...

Is it possible to fall in love in just 2 meetings including sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - Is it fair to tell her I am in love? Our first meeting - We had sex for 2 hours and it was extremely passionate. How we ended up having sex in the first meeting is something which I rather not discuss here. Our 2nd meeting - We ended up chatt...

Is it true that guys cannot really control themselves in the heat of the moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - This question is for guys mainly. Recently I was making out with my bf when suddenly he started seriously touching me up and feeling my butt and boobs and went a little over board. Anyway I told him that he went a bit too far and he was really sorry ...

How do I convince a guy who's been with a ton of girls that i'd be Good sexually?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - How do I convince this guy, who has been with a ton of girls, think that i'm good sexually? ...

Should I confront him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4774 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months and we really like each other. I often go round to his house and we just sit and watch a movie or something like that (we don't do anything sexual) and I usually leave quite late. Sometimes I ...

Is it normal for 15 year olds to masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

9 April 2011 (F) - Ok so I'm 15 and I masturbate. I know it is perfectly naturally but I can't help but feel awful afterwards. I don't want to but I can't help it sometimes. Is it normal I know guys masturbate but is it normal for girls especially 15 year olds ? Also ...