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I can only relax for sex if I've had a few drinks. Am I alone in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

16 April 2011 (F - hi, i'm a 21 year old woman who sufferers with severe anxiety disorder and as a result, my sex drive seems to be zero. i find it incredibly hard to relax as a result of this and can only seem to relax enough in the bedroom if i've has a few drinks. ...

I told him I thought the decreasing intimacy in our relationship was a problem and he said I was moaning. Was I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

16 April 2011 (F - hi, i've been dating a guy for the past nine months and we get on well, both love each other but every other month our work patterns go out of sync for a month and then return into sync again because his shifts fall back in line with my weekends...

What should I do to be good at sex for the first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4766 days ago

16 April 2011 (M - hi i am 18 next month and i am still a virgin. I feel a little insecure about it. I have started going out with this girl who i know quite well. the thing is that she is a few months younger than me basically the year below me in school terms and...

Should we wait, like she wants, or will our lack of sex at this point tear us apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

16 April 2011 (? - i have a question about my relationship and the sex i've been with my girl for 1 year and 9 months we are planning to get married and we've already had lots of sex the past summer but she wants to stop being intimate and we've haven't had ...

My ex FWB is back, but he has a GF now. I don't know how to handle his advances.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

16 April 2011 (F - I've known this guy for a few years. We used to be 'friends with benefits', but then everybody found out, we both denied it like our lives depended on it, and then didn't speak for a while. Then last summer we started getting friendly, but nothing ...

Question about dating and sex in the later years.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

16 April 2011 (F - I'm a woman of 78 who has been alone a number of years. I joined a Senior Dating site recently. Now, this guy who's 68 contacted me. He is looking for a friend and a lover and asked me if I was interested. His first question to me was I still ...

Please rate the experience for me.

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16 April 2011 (F - I'm 17 still a virgin, I think of it as a major accomplishment. I'm young and I'm not super model gorgeous but I'm very pretty people are always shocked when they find out I'm a virgin and they never believe me. My friends all not virgins keep ...

How can I convince my mum that I’m not pregnant, and to let me back into my house?

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16 April 2011 (F - okay so my family is really strict christian and since my dad died last year my mum has been really strict and protective of me. so last week my mum started telling me that i looked really pale and that i was putting on weight. I took no notice of ...

Looking at porn in a relationship. Is it cheating? Why is he pushing me away?

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16 April 2011 (F - Ive been with this guy for 5 years now. when we got together i told him my veiws about porn. its cheating. we have been through heaps together. We have a daughter together and everything. When i was pregnet everything changed. He started spending...

Questions about sex for the first time.

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16 April 2011 (F - Hiya, last night i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. Im already confused! On two occasions we had to use a new condom because it wouldnt stay on - is this normally what happens? Also, as it was my first time i assumed it would be real...

Just hitting my sexual peak now, I think. Should I go with younger women because of this?

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16 April 2011 (M - My body has always been late in everything to deal with the subject of sex. I lost my virginity when I was 17. The first time I ever masturbated was when I was 19. I didn't even hit puberty until I was 16. Whereas men typically hit their peak sexual ...

How much to shave.

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16 April 2011 (F - I'm new to sex and everything and i wanted to know do i shave it all off keep some? i would ask my boyfriend but its embarrassing and i dont know what to do! ...

Ladies can you tell me why you hate porn or why you think other women hate it?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

16 April 2011 (M - Why do women hate porn so much? I agree that when it becomes an addiction, their is a problem. However why, when a guy watches porn only occasionally, and has sex at least once every 2 days? I mean, it's not an addiction but only to spend time. ...

Should I buy my girlfriend, 17, a vibrator to help her discover more?

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16 April 2011 (M - Hello everyone, my best wishes to all who take the time to help. It is appreciated. My girlfriend and I are both 17 and have been experimenting sexually. The problem is she has never masterbated, and doesn't like the idea of doing it with her fing...

I dreamt that my fiancee impregnated another girl! What does it mean?

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16 April 2011 (? - I dreamed that my fiancee impregnated someone else. What does this mean?...

Is it normal for a 25-year-old man to have wet dreams more than four times a year?

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16 April 2011 (? - My question's very simple. Is it normal for a 25 yr old man to have wet dreams more then four times a yr? ...

Erect penis is "shifted" to my left side...does anyone know how to fix it?

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16 April 2011 (M - This is a very embarrassing question to be asking anyone face to face, so I hope people on the internet will provide me with an answer and not mock me. =$ When ever I have an erection, my penis would curve down slightly, but not only that, my wh...

This guy I've been talking to didn't want to sleep with me...and I ended up sleeping with his friend. Why do I feel badly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

16 April 2011 (F - I have been talking this guy and we have been keeping it cool. I spent the night at his place twice but we have only done oral. So I was with him and his best friend we had all been drinking and his friend asked us if we were staying the night since ...

Can you lose sexual attraction for someone?

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16 April 2011 (F - is it possible to loose sexual attraction to someone? I was in a relationship for five years it ended because he was too verbally abusive."ur fat, the "b" and "c" word and all that nasty stuff.Anyways months have passed and he has been dying to come ...

My husband has a sex addiction and I'm considering leaving him...Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

16 April 2011 (F - I have been with my husband for going on 13 years now and we have three kids ....But he has had a problem with what I think is a sex-addiction. He has had problems calling sex chat lines , signing for up for single sites and so on, but now I have ...

I've fallen in love with an older female escort!

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16 April 2011 (M - i have met a female escort and i started to love her how i can get her heart also she older than me not too much and i Believe that i got no snow ball chance in hell with her what can i do guys to know her feelings about me especial...

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