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writes:A girl I'm seeing is wanting me to pee on her. I know lots of people will do this for the erotic pleasure, but she insists that this isn't the case for her. She says its more about the intimacy of it. I'm a little confused by her reasoning. Anyone have any insight on 'non-erotic' water sports? Reply to this Question
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reader, honestman  +, writes (3 April 2011):
I do think it is a fetish. I think you should try it, at least once or twice. Clearly tell her that you are just making an effort, but if you don't like it, then you'll never going to do that again.Some times a partner needs to open up to different possibilities. My girlfriend asked me to spank her once, and I did it, but very lightly. I did it lightly because I didn't want to hurt her. But a few months later, I have been getting very turned on to the idea of spanking her, just a little harder. [We are on a long distance relationship] I don't know what happened to me, but I started to like it. Also, I just started to get turned on by the idea of peeing my girlfriend [as you just mentioned it]. I really don't know why I enjoy the idea. I hope you try something new, at least once in a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): I reckon you should go for it. I'm not into pee, but she obviously is.It's a very common fetish. There is plenty of popular porn that revolves around it.Hey, you've found a girl who isn't afraid to get freaky. Cherish that cause you'll likely never find a chick who's into anything other than regular sex again.You fulfill her fetish and she's bound by honour to return the favour at any rate.Flynn 24
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reader, person12345 +, writes (3 April 2011):
 Sounds like she's turned on by it, but is too embarrassed to say so. I can't imagine this could be anything but a fetish. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it. You're not obligated to do anything sexually that makes you uncomfortable.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (3 April 2011):
 This is a little bit weird. Are you comfotable with this? If not, maybe try telling her that you don't find that intimate, you feel like it would be disrespectful to her and you'd rather find another way to be intimate together that doesn't involve doing that kind of thing.
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (3 April 2011):
 did you ask her to explain in great detail what she means?why does this mean, 'intimacy' for her, i mean where did it come from?to me erotic pleasure/intimacy is the same thing.. its all pleasure.
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