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Are girls meant to have an orgasm every time they have sex?

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Question - (3 April 2011) 9 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2011)
A male France age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone

Short little question: are girls meant to have an orgasm whenever they have sex? or does it depends on their mood, situation, size of penis?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011):

Only if you do it the right way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011):

Well yes. If this is not the case then you are doing something wrong or you don't have the adequate equipment.

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A female reader, marie.possa5 Puerto Rico +, writes (3 April 2011):

If she doesn't go for it she wont but Im sure she will feel awesome pleasure even though not the orgasm!!

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (3 April 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Cerberus, consider yourself kissed on your forehead :) You , and the girls you dated .

That happened to me too some times- I felt in the mood, even enthusiastic, I just did not feel the need for the end of show fireworks. My partner always thought I was insane.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

What do you mean are we meant to come? Well, it would be nice, why else do you think we are at the party?

We don't every time though, and that can be ok as long as it's not all the time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

No, they don't cum every time and in fact most girls rarely do.

Over half of all women don't orgasm through penetration alone. They need clitoral stimulation.

Of all those girls that do orgasm from vaginal penetration it doesn't happen every time. Girls just aren't built that way. It can depend on size of penis, mood, situation, position, type of sex, emotional feeling for the guy and a whole host of other factors.

Most girls just can't orgasm from penetration at all, no matter how big the penis.

OP as I said girls aren't wired like us, we pretty much orgasm every time. They don't. Just remember though that it doesn't mean it isn't very pleasurable for them anyway. While climax is the ultimate goal penetration still feels really good for them and if they haven't reached climax during that time then just make sure you give them that during after-play.

Something else to remember. Most girls I have dated just didn't want an orgasm every time we had sex. Sometimes women just want to have sex for sex's sake and not reach full climax. They want the pleasure and some sex but not go all the way again that depends on mood.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

I would say technically it would be nice to orgasm every time and rightly we deserve to.

True be told we dont...many fake it, I fake it.

However my bf is amazing and makes sure that i do first and then he usually comes when i do(most likely because im a loud individual), unless he wants a release then he couldnt care less about me...im just his object =/

situation and size doesnt really matter btw, however mood that can sometimes have an effect but most will not have sex if not in the mood and if they do, they probably dont care whether they orgasm or not.

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A female reader, doll-face United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2011):

In simple form, no - girls don't have to orgasm while having sex.

Some women orgasm a lot, others have never experienced it before.

It's good to get to know the girls body, what does it for her, and what doesn't. I didn't orgasm until my boyfriend used his fingers to figure out what's good for me.

Also, sometimes fingers can hit a spot a penis can't...so it doesn't even necessarily have to be through full sex!

Different girls like different things - but they usually do need to be turned on to orgasm...

And it's not how big it is, it's what you do with it that's important!

Hope this helps!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011):

Their mood is the main factor. Don't have sex with your girl if she is not in the mood. It is not just right.

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