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The first time I had sex I didnt feel anything

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Question - (11 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *vn writes:

I was a virgin?! But the first time I didnt feel anything? Why?? Am I still a virgin??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009):

Maybe you didn't focus at that time.

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A female reader, ffogalilly United States +, writes (11 September 2009):

I didn't feel anything either the first time I had sex either, I assumed my hymen broke playing sports years ago. My last encounter was somewhat rough on his part, couldn't walk straight for a couple of days. Sex is sex, its not your fault, the person you're having sex with does not know how to pleasure a woman. I don't think you have to love someone, to feel pleasure during sex. Of course its normal to feel bad, I am still hung up on a guy who I have been with twice, because he is a stubborn ass who doesn't communicate.

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A male reader, oBaLLiNo United States +, writes (11 September 2009):

So you had sex willingly? If so then im sorry but your not a virgin. It was probly the wrong time and or you didnt love this person.

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