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writes:I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturbate atleast 2 times a day and somedays i go up to 8 - 10 times. Does it have anything to do with my size? Please guide me.
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reader, sreenivas +, writes (3 March 2013):
Dude guess u r from india.You dnt need to worry about the size coz the average size in india is 4-5 inches only according to a recent survey. You are just normal and can get some great sex.
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reader, hindsight  +, writes (21 July 2010):
You're fine. Most studies put 70% of the male population between 4.5 and 6.5 inches. So, while you're toward the low end of the average category, it's not as if you're a toothpick up against a world of baseball bats. If you have good techniques (before and after penetration) and are even relatively attentive to their needs, most women are fine.
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reader, VampyricHybrid +, writes (6 February 2009):
 It depends on the girl. My ex was about that size and it never bothered me, especially since I loved him. Don't worry. And, masturbating has nothing to do with your size.
-Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Date shorter and thinner women. It will look and feel bigger to them
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reader, vanessadazed +, writes (16 November 2008):
4 and a half is actually bigger than the average size which is like 3 or 3.5 or something. and trust me some women are scared of huge penises lmfao and plus having a large one doesn't automatically make you better in bed by default so i say work with what you got.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Like female breasts, penises naturally occur in a variety of shapes and sizes. it's not really about the size but more what you do with it. Many women can't orgasm vaginally, regardless of the size of the guy's penis, and if he's too big it's only going to hurt her. If you are really concerned then read up on other ways to pleasure your woman, but be aware most of them aren't going to care how big it is anyway!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): There is a surgery that makes penis longer. I saw on some plastic surgery show, like doc 90210.But that's true that you guys make to much fuss about size of you penises. The average i heard was 6'. I had couple of guys with large penises, and believe me it's not very pleasant. All the time during intercourse I was worrying that he would hurt me. Often there was blood at the end. I was all swollen the day after and had a hard time washing and sitting. Doesn't sound like fun, right?Masturbation has nothing to do with size. But 8-10 times a day sound like you are having a lot of fun all day long. But again what do I know , I v'e never been a 22-year old guy.....
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reader, SophieB  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 I am a 30 year old woman, and I have never even really thought about penis size! Honestly, it's actually not a factor is sexual satisfaction to me at all; and I would never judge someone in that way. If I liked a guy, and wanted to go to bed with him: penis size-IRRELEVENT. If I like you-you have got me already, and new information is not going to change my mind! We all have stuff we hate about our bodies and penis size is just another one of those things-I mean i hate my round tummy and my feet. But I hope someone who I liked wouldn't, when I got naked say 'sorry, your tummy is really fat..I can't carry on with this' or 'your feet are quite ugly and now I don't like you anymore!'; that's as absurd as what you are saying! I have a guy I like and if he told me he didn't even have a penis it wouldn't stop me liking him; I'd still want him the same. So basically-we are not a list of attributes, we are a whole person. People don't slice you up (mentally) and judge you by how many plus and negative points you have. Trust me, I'm a psychology teacher! All theories state that your first impression is the most important thing! subsequent info doesn't alter the first impression! You go have fun!!!
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reader, xxSABBYxx  +, writes (13 November 2008):
Hello friend... Penis size! This is something most men think about unless your hung like a donkey (which then is bad too )At the end of the day us men have to make do with what we have got..if you look online the average penis is 4.5 inches to 5.5 inches. so if thats the average your making it just fine..so am i!! as our other aunts have said its not size its what you can do with it!! im a gay man and personally size dosnt matter to me..as long as it works!! Some guys think the bigger the better, but in some cases for women bigger isnt better as for them its too uncomfortable or not pleasurable enough!relax chill out and just enjoy, but if you do want to change some things about your size see your doctor..I did think about surgery myself a few years back, but after surgery to make it bigger you never fully get an erection, its always floppy! so that made my decision final, i would rather have a hard one! LOLHope this helps, after all it is just advice, and this is mine to you!!lovesSabs
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reader, Twinkle_x +, writes (13 November 2008):
Hey, I'm a girl of 20 and I can surely tell you from where I am from, size doesn't matter any more, It's all about how you use it, not the size of it. I personally don't like big men and I know none of my friends do. I think there is just a lot of pressure on men to feel that they have to have a big penis just like us girls have pressure of containting this skinny fake girl image. I think you need to stop worrying about the size of your penis and I know there are many blokes out there that are worried about the size of theres. I don't think there is a what you call NORMAL penis, everyone is designed to be different.. if it really bothers you maybe talk to your doctor. But I think you are personally fine and when you meet the right girl and lose your virginity you will certainly be happy and so will she :)
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Hello,
The news is all good...you will be able to pleasure a girl, pleasure yourself and also make girls pregnant. Try not to wonder about size and making things bigger, there are other things that girls look for and penis size is not something I have at the top of my list! xxxx
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