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Step by step blow job instructions?

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Question - (13 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2008)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend want me to give him a blow-job but i dont know how.

Can anyone explain it to me....like step by step please!

thanks so much!!

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2008):

hannah76 agony auntStep by step information??? I'm blushing already! xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008):

you are a bit young but here you go...

1Get comfortable, after all it wouldn't be any fun for either of you if you end up with a sore neck.

Step2Show initiative! Make the first move and he'll be like putty in your hands. If you're using condoms, slip it onto him using just your mouth.

Step3Start off slowly and remember to take your time in teasing him. Lick the glans (head), run your tongue up the frenulum (the strip of skin beneath the glans on the underside), tickle his testes (balls), kiss his inner thighs.

Step4Mouth his member squeezing him gently between your lips. Teeth can hurt, so slide your lips over your teeth to avoid pain as that's not many chaps' cup of tea.

Step5While some men might enjoy the feel of teeth against their manhood, the majority do not. Just as no two grains are the same - no two men are. Listen to the sounds your partner is making and let that guide you in guiding him to ecstasy.

Step6As you suck, don't forget to use your tongue for added sensations. Sounding like you're enjoying yourself with humming sounds will not only boost his ego but increase his pleasure as your mouth vibrates on him.

Step7Slippery's good, so make sure there's plenty of saliva flowing. Those with a dry mouth can introduce a tasty lubricant to get the juices flowing. One trick which works with great success is to introduce warm drinks into your oral play. This could get messy but having a bit of warm tea in your mouth when his manhood penetrates your lips can give him an extra-heated experience - but do make sure that it is not too hot! Alternatively, a fizzy champagne can send tingles up his spine in no time.

Step8While your mouth is occupied, don't forget to use your hands. Stroke his thighs, tickle his balls, rub his abdomen. Some men love having their perineum (the area between the balls and anus) stroked. Some like it one step further with a finger being gently inserted in the anus, however I wouldn't recommend this if you have long nails as you may cause pain.

Step9While keeping eye contact can be difficult, occasionally look at his face. Not only will you see his pleasure but he'll have a lovely view of the most beautiful person in the world worshipping his member. It's a real buzz for both of you.

Step10Remember, using your hands isn't cheating. Use your hand as an extension of your mouth if necessary to give your mouth a break.

Step11Increase your speed until you find a rhythm you both like. When it seems he's nearing his peak, whatever you do, don't slow down or change direction suddenly.

Step12As he nears orgasm, the decisions are up to you. Some men will tell you as they're about to, which makes things easier as you're prepared. Whether you spit or swallow or finish him off with your hand, he'll still feel the pleasure.

Step13Once he orgasms, slow down or stop completely as it could be painful for him. Many men are very sensitive at that point.

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