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How can I pleasure him with my hand down his trousers?

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Question - (12 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2011)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi how would i go about pleasuring my man while he is standing up with his trousers on and i put my hand down them?

ive never done this before, how would i touch him and things

PLEASE HELP ME!

x x x

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A female reader, cire United States +, writes (7 November 2011):

If you want to be playful and turn your boyfriend or husband on with some frisky handwork, this is what i usually do.

We can be watching tv or having a romantic moment. I start slowly ..maybe unbutton a few buttons on his shirt and getle stoke his chest.

Then i move my hand slowly down his shirt and towards his waist .

I then gently unbuckle his belt (that starts warming me up too ) and spread his pants open a bit for future action and play.

Then i trace fingers down his waist till i am across from his crotch.

I slowly bring my hand across and rest my hand on the outside of his pants on his crotch and penis.

I then slowly maassage him with my finger tips and get turned on as he begins to grow harder .

I trace my fingers up to his open pants and slowly move inside the waistband of his pants and then below the waistband of his boxers. You may even want to move his pants down By now he has a low moan working which turns me on tooo wooooo.

Anticipation is everything !!!!! Be very slow as you decend to his penis. and gently begins to take it in your hand and stoke him sllllloooowly !!!!

Usually also, he is simultaniously loosening my clothing too and beginning foreplay with me.

The rest should lead to some very heaving petting and / or sex .

Exciting variations..try it at a rest stop too as you are sitting in your car. I love to turn him on when he least expects it, fondling, rubbing, unzipping him .

Or maybe when he is suntanning and it is just the two of you !!! Sliding your hand up the leg of his swim trunks ...

Even turned him on and gave him hand job when he was fixing the sink lol lol. great time when he is on his back ...not seeing you first to gently start rubbing and caressing him, undo his pants and have some fun...

Surprise can be a great turn on

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008):

The key to a good sex life in communication, and every guy likes something different. Ask him what he thinks feels good and then try it and his attitude afterwards will probably be clear feedback! =]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008):

It will be difficult to give him a handjob with his pants on. Have him take them off. Use some lubricant on your hand. Grip his penis firmly but not too tightly and stroke him up and down slowly. You can also have him place his hand over yours and show you how he likes to be touched. It's not really a science!

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