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anonymous
writes:HeyThis probably sounds really stupid but I don't know what it is, when you're meant to find out etc.My boyfriend recently bought me a vibrator and he keeps asking if I've used it yet. He's being sweet and not forceful and I want to try it out, however, how do you actually use it? It's a rampant rabbit vibrator. I know you insert it into your vagina. That is the extent of my knowledge. How do you insert it?Is it painful?Will it affect my being a virgin?I would really appreciate a little helpful advice.Thanks, Anonymous.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (12 December 2008):
 What the heck has he bought you that for. I wonder how many of his mates he's told he sounds so immature. He sounds a bit kinky. I think the first step would be, when you are ready, to try the real thing and give him the vibrator back and tell him to use it on himself. I would have been so insulted and embarrassed if a guy had given me a vibrator in those circumstances. To be honest it's not very respectful of him. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): PS: Bloody idiot, them rampant rabbits are much too big, that thing will hurt a lot. And they got all these little bits on top, I don't know how to use one either, I think they're built for robots... He could at least have gotten you something smaller and less complicated, something that is similar to the real thing. When I saw one of those, I went right off sex, too frightening for me I'm afraid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): These young kids don't know about romance Uncle Phil, that's how they do things these days...
I've been thinking, I think this maybe a plan to get you to have sex. Your a virgin, and if you use the vibrator you'll get used to the feeling of something inside of you. That's why he wants you to use it. I don't think this is meant for you alone. He wants you to use it and have pleasure, and then you'll have no more excuses not to have sex with him, because you'll have experienced pleasure from something inside your vagina, even if it ain't him. Clever guy your chap. Throw it in the bin and tell him your fingers work OK, thanks but no thanks, your not fooled.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): He must be one of the most insensitive idiots on the planet! You don't buy your girlfriend a vibrator unless she's used to that sort of thing or you can't get it up. Christ, that was real romantic wasn't it?
If I were you I'd have told him to shove it up his arse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): I suggest you don't use it babes, find some other ways to amuse yourself and your boyfriend. You loose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse with a man. But as Deejuliet says, you will break your hymen, and it will be impossible for a guy to tell if your still a virgin. Your first experience is better with a guy, if you are going to use it, I suggest that you use it with your boyfriend. Or better still, don't use it all. Massage around your clitoris or your vaginal area and you don't insert it, and it should give you fun without the pain from the vibrations alone.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 No matter what you will be a virgin. You lose your virginity when you have intercourse with a man, a penis must enter you, not a toy. You will, however, break your hymen and that can be quite painful. I, personally, do not think your first experience should be with a toy. I think this may be rather difficult to do as well. If the thing vibrates just hold it up to your clit. The vibrations will cause you to have amazing orgasms.
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