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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is it normal for sex to hurt at the beginning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I just started having sex for the first time with my boyfriend. He has been very gentle and careful and does a great job of foreplay. We have done it a few times since then, but the beginning still hurts. As it keeps going, it doesn't hurt nearly ...

Masturbation - is it common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - ive always wondered, is it okay to masturbate? is it common or not? everyone goes round saying 'you're a wanker' etc. is this because everyone does it or am i a one off?...

Do we have too much sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 775 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Im 17 and my bf nearly 18 and we've been going out for 6mnths now. I love him more than anyone. But whenever we have the oppurtunity we'll have sex- multiple times usually and are very adverturous! Its starting to feel dirty and meaningl...

Can a man be "raped" by a woman?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I would like to know if it is possible for a man to have sex with a woman against his will?...

How can my boyfriend avoid being bored?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - anytime my boyfriend comes over hes bored. i hate going to his house too because he still lives with his family and i dont get the impression they like me being their(its quite a small house and i feel im taking up a lot of space)... but when he ...

What does sex involve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - This may sound abit stupid but i want to know what you actually do in sex ? Im still a virgin and so is my boyfriend and we want our 1st time to be magical. We rented a hotel, got scented candles, red rose petals and a cd of slow romantic songs. E...

Within 3 weeks he told me he was falling for me and I slept with him. Since then he only tells me he loves me when he is drunk. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 672 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i are together 7 months now. he told me within 3 weeks that he was falling for me and i slept with him. since then he only tells me he loves me when he is drunk. he is very practical and im very idealistic so im not sure if we are a ...

What was she thinking 20 years ago?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 775 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - Had a follow up question and wanted to provide an update. BTW I appeciate all the help and I apologize to anyone Ive offended here. I'm fairly emotional right now and know people sometimes see things very differently. My wife and I are working ...

At first, I am really into sex and I want that pleasure. But after it's over, I feel horrible, guilty. Maybe it has to do with the past abuse, help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 774 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I am 21 years of age, and after sex, I feel bad..unlike most who feel satisfied. I feel as if I have done something wrong and should be punished. I don't have a very exciting sex life yet, it's pretty much "normal." I was molested as a child and I ...

It's our first time and need loads of tips on how to do it, please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - Ok this is going to sound soooooo stupid but how do you actually have sex? Me and my gf have decided we are ready and shes decided to get the injection and we have some condoms as well but neither of us have never done anything like this. We are ...

My gf is insecure about how she looks. How can I help her get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - Hi me and my gf have recently started having sex. W ehave been together over a yr and have been friends since infant school. It just she loves the sex,as do i. but she doesn't like the fact of doing it because shes taking her clothes off. She ...

Are girls supposed to cum frequently during drunken sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hi.. i was just wondering if its a bad thing wen i girl cums during sex, as wen i slept with my x boyfriend i was very drunk and i cant remember much, but he said i cum 2 fast and alot.. also i always cum alot when i am drunk.. i was wondering does ...

Can I fall in love with my husband again? How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I have been married for 9 years and I feel I deeply love my husband but after so long the "in love" stage seems to be gone. I am starting to think this is the reason why I have fallen in love with another man. I haven't told anybody and I don't pl...

My wife is a slob around the house and neglects me. Can I trust her to live up to her promises?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - I have known my wife for 7 years. Married to her for 5 years. During this time my wife has had 5 operations and has been diagnosed with Lupus. I have Multiple Sclerosis so my health isn't the greatest either. For the past 2 years or more I ...

My wife would rather fall asleep in front of the TV than have sex. She's lost interest in it. What can I do to revive our sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - After 35 years of marraige my wife and I no longer have sex . She falls asleep in front of the tv and I amuse myself at the computer We had a normal ex life till about 8 years ago I noticed I was the only one initiating sex. Then she became m...

My husband does not find me attractive. How can I maintain my self-esteem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - How can I mantain my self-esteem when my husband does not find me attractive? I have been married for over 20 years and my husband is currently going through a midlife crisis. Throughout our marriage, I have been the one to initiate sex. My husband ...

Can you get pregnant while having sex in a pool, shower or bath?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hi there I want to know if it is possible to get pregnant while having sex in the pool, shower, or bath? As I have heard that this is not possible because sperm dies when it gets in water or in air. Is this true or is this a myth? Please he...

My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...

I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 774 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before. What should I do? Should I be naked or I have no idea what to do. ...

I was wondering is there any risk of catching something if someone gives me a blowjob?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - I am a young gay guy. I was wondering is there any risk of catching something if someone gives me a blowjob? And what if that person had given someone else a blowjob before me - would there be risk in that?...

I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 775 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I am curious as to why hetrosexual males want anal sex? I personally have always considered it to be a homosexual activity and wonder why straight guys would wish to engage in this when they have other options?...

He doesn't want to continue seeing me because of my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - So about a month and a half ago I broke up with my boyfriend at the time. It was obvious that it wasn't going to work and was sort of mutual. We were only together for 6 months and while we were together I always had a little crush on his best ...