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writes:I have never given my boyfriend a hand job before. What should I do? Should I be naked or I have no idea what to do.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (11 October 2007):
You don't need to be naked. Tell him you've never done it before and have him tell you what to do. That will turn him on and make it easier for you.
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reader, BlueEyedAngel +, writes (8 October 2007):
 the main thing to do is not be nervous. stay calm and dont constantly stare at his penis. look into his eyes and watch is face expression and that will tell you alot. use a little baby oil and he will love it . also while you do it take slow long strokes at first and then you can speed up a bit , while doin that you can also lick around on his nipples and keep eye contact with him . good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): We used to call it 1, 2, 3, 4, - 99, change hands!
Get him to show you how HE does it. He does, you know!
A few drops of baby oil - not too much of it - will enhance the experience a great deal.
Phil
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (8 October 2007):
 Breathe, girl.
Hand jobs are easy. You can't really go wrong on them. Just start out slow and easy and then watch for signs from him. he's the only one who an tell you if he likes itt or what he wants you to do. Dressed, undressed, dressed up (always my fav it's great for your self confidence and sex appeal if you fell sexy you ARE sexy.), either way he's gonna like it. Be casual, don't make a big deal out of it or he'll know your nervous and that will make the encounter uncomfortable example: like if you are lying in bed and hes dressed, you can slowly rub your hand on his jeans and then slowly unzip them and have at it). The more confident you act, the more he will relax. hey, he may even give u a lil something back!!!
Have fun!!
XxAngelDust89xX
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): hun no you do not have to be naked. heck i'm not even naked when i'm having sex some times. if it's a sicluded place wich should be best for your first..and just ask him what he likes and he can even take hold of your hand and do it over your hand how he likes it tell you get the idea of what he likes is always a good way to know for sure..and some times you need lube!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): The first thing I suggest you do, is stay calm. You 'sound' like you're panicking there. Second, two words I have consistently advised for almost everything: OPEN COMMUNICATION. SEX is a form of communication. I, we, can tell you what you can do, but ultimately, it's what your boyfriend wants and whether if you are comfortable doing it or not.
When it comes time to churn his butter, ask him how he wants it. Look for ques (sp?). Catch his eye. Maybe even tease him a bit by wearing something delicious. Who knows? Only he knows. 8]
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