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writes:Im 17 and my bf nearly 18 and we've been going out for 6mnths now. I love him more than anyone.But whenever we have the oppurtunity we'll have sex- multiple times usually and are very adverturous! Its starting to feel dirty and meaningless, but i love the feeling of being able to share something so personal with him. Are we taking things faster than normal?Should we be having sex so often??Saddened =( Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (10 October 2007):
If you don't enjoy it stop it. Most young guys who first start getting it want to see how far they can go. That's normal but it doesn't last too long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): if you both enjoy it make the most of it. it could be a lot worse, you could be someone like me who isn't even good enough to have anyone to do this with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Do you use protection? You are very young with so much to look for. Are you wanting to get pregnant?
Be smart and think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): sex is to be shared between two people. if you are feeling uncomfortable for whatever reason by it then perhaps you should think about why you feel this way and maybe limit the sex untill you figure out how to make yourself feel better.
normal is relative to you, so dont try and compare yourself as a couple to other couples - some couples have sex frequently or hardly ever or whenever they can or have to plan it once or twice a month! all is normal to them so if it feels good and right to YOU then its all fine.
perhaps you could share other things together instead of sex - personal interests? have conversations about personal feelings or family things? all of these can make you feel closer to someone without sex being the only thing you share. just doing things together can also create a bond through the experiance you share.
hope this helps and also remember sex doesnt neccessarily need to be adventurous or dirty to be enjoyed and its about BOTH of you so as long as its equal and equally enjoyed its fine!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 October 2007):
 As long as both of you are comfortable, you can never have too much sex. It only becomes a problem if one of you starts not enjoying it. Otherwise, enjoy yourself!! I assure you that in time, your sex life will slow down a little bit. Right now you're still both excited and exploring each other.
Have fun with it, girlfriend!
xxIndia
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (8 October 2007):
 theres no such thing as too often but wat u need to do as a couple is find a balance. mabe try teasing each other but not actually doin anythin...do that for a week and then have sex and it will feel alive again. there are other ways of bein close to him but i totally undersatand ur logic. try cuddleing up 2 each other wen theres an oportunity...x
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