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Is it normal for sex to hurt at the beginning?

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Question - (8 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just started having sex for the first time with my boyfriend. He has been very gentle and careful and does a great job of foreplay. We have done it a few times since then, but the beginning still hurts. As it keeps going, it doesn't hurt nearly as much. But is it normal for it to hurt in the beginning?

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (9 October 2007):

Collaroy agony auntI'ts most likely because you are tight.

A simple rememdy would be to get some lubricant. KY Jelly or the like should do it

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A female reader, little miss fix it Guernsey +, writes (9 October 2007):

Hia you dont need to worry its perfectly normal for some girls to find sex painful at the beginning,all of us are different some girls have no problems,i had the same problem as you but give it time and it should be fine,id say a good few months maybe less,im glad your boyfriend is gentle with you thats a good thing,just take things easy things will get better then youl enjoy making love.Let me know how things are,if theres anything you need to talk about send a message and il get back,good luck take care x x x x

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