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writes:Ok this is going to sound soooooo stupid but how do you actually have sex? Me and my gf have decided we are ready and shes decided to get the injection and we have some condoms as well but neither of us have never done anything like this. We are both old enough i have just tured 17 and shes 17 in afew months. Also how can i get her ready enough and what do girls like us guys to do during sex? I was gonna try oral as well but i would get down there and not know what to do. I want her to be totally ready and to really get her going and wanting it before but i really need some help in order to do it! Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): From the sounds of it your gf loves u, and if anything goes wrong or something embarassing happens, in my own experience its nothing to worry about. ur both new to this so theres not exactly anything to compare it to.
As said before- take it slow, u cant go wrong then.
The 1st time its also a good idea not to try any funny positions, it will just over complicate things.
If u want her to feel ready try making her dinner first or watching a chic flick- it will show her that u care and she will be more open to the idea. Also work your way up to it, tease her if you like.
A girl will like it for you to hold her and kiss her during sex and to make-love to her, not shag her as hard as u can. Respect is the key when it comes to what a girl will want.
Also make sure you enjoy it too, its about two people not just one.
Have fun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Ok! You have taken care of the first step .. protection !
You probably know the basics, inserting the penis into the vagina ...
However, there is no specific way to have sex. It just comes naturally to many people. There are a few tips though.
Before sex, you could use fingers to get your girlfriend ready. If you are not sure on what to do then ask her what feels good. If you really are ready, then you can talk to each other about what feels good. When she is turned on, there may be some liquid in her vagina, which acts as a lubricant. When inserting your penis inside her, make sure you do not go too fast, as it usually hurts a little the first time. Then when it is in, just move whatever way feels right. You should start off slow and if it is not too painful she will go faster. Slide your penis in and out of her vagina and see what her reactions are, go with them and it will be fine !
Good Luck x
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (8 October 2007):
 First there is no such thing as a stupid question. there isn't really a textbook on having sex, but if you want to do oral, focus on her clit. Watch her, she will let you know if she likes something. some girls like it when you stick your tounge inside her. When you actually go to have intercourse, GO VERY SLOW. It will hurt (not too badly), depending on your size, and you dont want to hurt her. Doing oral is a good way to lubricate, and BRAVO on using condoms. just go slow and watch each other for signals.
Oh, and most importantly, ENJOY!!!! ;)
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