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We're newlyweds...but I am bored! Help!

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Question - (20 July 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female age 41-50, *conditionaire writes:

hellow everyone!

I just want to ask why the long distance relationship is so boring sometimes. We are newlyweds but I feel no spark in our relationship. I'm afraid what going on now. I easily mad in myself always even the little things at home. We can't communicate our hobbies and can't build a funny conversation. Im so worried if hes not happy. Im scared that I willlose my feelings with him. Sometimes Im feeling unloved bcoz he is so stingy for me compare to the other man I know. Actually, Im back from here site again in the same problem but it is normal feeling bored sometimes in a relationship? Its is okey to keep telling my hubby that I'm not satisfied his monthly budget he send to me? and if I have to tell what words I have to use? I am concern so much about him but sometimes I feel nothing. I always recall how stingy he is to me always. its is my own problem? I really want to gain my knowlegde in the healthy relationship coz I hate feeling bored. In my heart I love to smile but no reason to smile if you know what I mean. When Im working before, even I don't have money I always smile in a little things. Right now I keep watching any blogs to make me smile but if I talk my hubby I feel somethings lack of our relationship. Sometimes our ending conversation is dry but I really want him to smile and make a joke but I don't have idea or words that I should use. Is this okey? I like this sites coz I feel like I am heard. thank you for reading agony aunts... hope everyone feeling okay.

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