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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2009 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is he, did he, will he cheat? At a loss...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Never thought I'd do this but here goes... any advice appreciated... My husband and I have been together over 3 years. I spent the 1st year drumming it into him why constant sexy emails, calls and texts from EVERY ex he's ever had is NOT cool. He...

I am in love with a married woman. What can we do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - been married for 14 years have 2 beautiful kids but i'm not in love with my wife anymore i'm in love with another women who is also married 20 years. went to school and graduated with this women her marriage is bad also she is not happy we want to ...

He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had ...

Should I have an affair on my husband?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I ...

Why do I feel guilty about ending her emotional affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My wife had what I figure was an emotional affair a few years ago. There was a lot of texting. I don't think there was any physical contact and she came totally clean about it in the finish. It devastated me at the time and had a pretty bad affect ...

How do I approach her about the lack of sex in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little less than 2 years and we dated for a little over 2 years before that of which more than a year was spent in different continents. At the outset I must say that I love my wife and feel fortunate that s...

My husband cheated on me again while I was pregnant. Should I take him back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'm currently 9 months pregnant with my 3rd child. Around the 8th month of pregnancy I found out that my husband of almost 9 yrs was cheating on me with someone from another state (he's in the military and travels a lot). It sta...

Did I do the right thing by calling my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

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How do I deal with my unhappy marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - helo.im married for 8yrs now.i have 3 daughters with my husband.my husband was employed at first and in those days had many affairs with other women which resulted in him having two kids outside our marriage.we managed to work through all that and ...

How do I get my husband to feed the baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I just had a baby a month ago and my husband worKs alot and when he is home i wont him to care for the baby to bond with him and also so i can have a brake to get things done that i cant do while i am holding a baby. well the baby does not realy ...

Should I clear the air with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm very confused why I can't stop thinking about him. We are both married with children. My spouse could not be more perfect for me. We are both so alike in so many ways. The "spark" left our relationship once our first child was born. We go months ...

I have cheated on my husband resulting in 3 abortions and now he wants a baby!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - its been 10 weeks since my abortion im trying for a baby but it keeps coming negative.iv had 3 abortions. Due to careless behind my hubbys back.but now my hubbys really desperate for a baby.please help....