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writes:helo.im married for 8yrs now.i have 3 daughters with my husband.my husband was employed at first and in those days had many affairs with other women which resulted in him having two kids outside our marriage.we managed to work through all that and stick together.he lost his job since then.he wants to control everything i do he wants to know how much i get paid and what i do with every cent.i feel this is unfair because i never knew how much he got paid when he used to work.he's not seeing other women now because he cant afford to entertain them.we not ever intimate and have sex once in 3 months.if it will help im 29 and he's 36.sometimes i think we were just not meant to be.please give me advice in how to deal with this.im very unhappy.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2009):
I want to be able to say put all your energy into this and see if it can be fixed. But I'm skeptical because he really sounds like a nasty, controlling man. He's treating you very unfairly adn being very cruel. And he's even lied and cheated on you. I think this crunch time for you. If you don't stand up to him now, then you never will and he will always treat you this way. So be brave, sit him down and tell him that this is unacceptable behavour and if he continues, you will have to leave. And mean in, because he has no right to do this to after how you've been treated. Good luck.
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