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male
age
30-35,
*luenee
writes:This is about the girl whom i love.. She is now abroad for study and for now she is having her exams.. The way of us being in contact is internet chatting or calls.. Regular calls is not possible. So just facebook mails and chat is the way. But now a days i don't know whats getting on her mind she doesn't contact me.. Not even a single mail a day nor a miss call..she says her sim is not working and has exams. But to the contrary, before she used to contact me regular with four five mails per day, sms, and chat.. She used to say, please be in contact always. But now she herself is being out of contact from me. I don't know why she's doing so. I love her she does too. And it has been six days of no contact and may be forty days of just a little contact between her and me. Gap between me and her, i don't like it, and i don't think its good for us who are staying in relation despite of this distance.I understand that she has exams. But that doesn't mean that she doesn't have time for bein in contact with me. As if she spends twenty four hours on her study without taking meal,bathing,talking with her friends and bla bla... She had been saying me that balance in her sim(of her cellphone) gets reduced to zero just after recharging.. So i had said her to take next sim, which is just half an hour work or fifteen minutes.. But she said she'll do it after her exams which will take more than fifteen days more. When i had exams i had been contact with her. She had complained me for not sending one msg out of four a day, but now what is she doing? If i want, i can ignore her.. But i can't coz i love her a lot. Just few days ago she had apologised me for not being in contact for a day, but now when she has been out of contact of a week, she didn't even admitted this and talked with me as if nothing happened. Am i over reacting? Shouldn't she contact me despite of her exams just taking out five ten minutes a day? What shall i do? I'm freaked out of her behaviour.
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reader, Aluenee +, writes (30 July 2011):
Aluenee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah i've many beautifull moments spent with her.. And regarding support. Why wouldn't i support her? I know and she knows too how helpful i was at time of her study.. Anyways, givin space to the person for more than ten fifteen or even thirty days. Huff. Its too difficult for me. Its the same person with whom i was so much intimate,and just a day without contact would have hurt each other badly. But now a single day has no importance.
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reader, dominic pusel  +, writes (29 July 2011):
 every thing is possible, let me ask you have you shared any intimate moment with this ur cenderella?
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (29 July 2011):
 You are going to have to give her space and not contact her until she contacts you. She doesn't seem interested at the moment. A week no contact is definitely a change in things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2011): let her be..she'll call you back when she's ready..give her the support when she needs it the most: her exams..do not give her additional stress or problems..
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reader, Aluenee +, writes (29 July 2011):
Aluenee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionChance of other guy.. Hmmm no way.. And regarding sim, she gap option but she didn't choose it.. Getting next sim there for her is easy.. And next, about her exams. Just five ten minutes not a big deal na..
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reader, dominic pusel +, writes (29 July 2011):
Guy let's take the bull by the horn, and put some thing into consideration, (1), she might have met some other guy who she loves more than you. (2) her exams may really be the problem. (3) her sim card may be the probkem, (4) she might be out of funds, (5) it may be a testing you to know if you really trust her. MY ADVICE... try and give ur girl some space, ask her if she still loves you. Try to give her the time she needs to fix things and if it still continues bow out, love is to be share 50_50 and if the figures change it becomes abnormal. Be a man it may be time to take a rashd decision
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