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writes:This is just for some advice really. So I went on holiday this year with the girls and we met a few lads out there. We had such a good time and I got particularly friendly with one of them. We recently had a reunion with a couple of them which resulted in me sleeping with the guy I was friendly with on holiday. The thing is I really like him, I am attracted to him and think he is a really nice guy. But it was a holiday fling, you have reunions then that's it really. I don't even have his phone number or anything and pretty sure he just sees it as a holiday romance and nothing more. The question is what do I do about it? Nothing and move on? And if there is anything I can do, what is it? I don't want to seem needy or pathetic or anything and pretty scared of rejection. Also it would be long distance (ish) I'm at University currently and he lives probably about 2 hours drive away from me. Although slightly closer when I'm actually home. So? What's the verdict? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you :)
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reader, bluecow +, writes (10 December 2011):
 If you dont try you will never know.
I wonder how you will contact him if you dont have his number... do any of your friends have his number?, are you friends on any social networking sites etc?
Assuming you can contact him, why dont you message him and let him know when you will be home for the holidays. You could suggest meeting halfway somewhere for a coffee and catch up. Dont make it seem like your after a relationship, just suggest a friendly drink and see what happens.
IF he is interested, he will assuredly say yes. He will also say yes if he wants to stay in touch as friends. Its once you meet him again that you can begin to decide if there is any relationship potential there.
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