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We broke up due to it being a long distance relationship, but I'm seeing her in the summer, any chance of a real relationship then...?

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Question - (19 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello aunts and uncles well you see me and my GF broke up today but i took it alot easier today but it might be the fact that the relationship was long distant.Well anyways she said she was sorry and all i said it was ok and i respect her decision she said that she didn't want to ruin it cuz of the fact i was going to where she lived in the summer to visit her.

What did she mean is this somewhat a way of telling me that she wants to see me and possibly be with me? Is thier any hope that if i do go over there will we have a real relationship?this is soo confusing i mean we just broke up today but i love her sooo much maybe we broke up considering of the long distance but i will still visit her. so what do you guys think about this situation

plz and thank you =]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

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well she said that she fell out of love for me and that she's really sorry idk what to do anymore it's like i lost all hope.Even if i did fight it and asked why i don't see anymore reasons they're maybe some reason she fell out of love but i..i lost the reason i love this girl...idk what to do anymore maybe i can find the real reason if i see her in person.

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A female reader, les United States +, writes (19 May 2008):

What reasons did she give you for breaking up and how has your relationship been up to this point?

My wonderful long-distance boyfriend became so involved with school work, he ignored me for three weeks. No matter what I said or did, he'd just say he was busy with work. I broke up with him to get his attention and to let him know that if he doesnt get his act together soon, I'll be gone for sure.

So, point is, that sometimes girl break up with guys but dont really want to. If you want to know for sure, dont say okay.. fight it, keep talking to her even if she ignores you. If she gives in soon, then you're good and jsut have to figure out a way to communicated better. If she changes her phone number, time to move on.

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