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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:We been for 3 years together. Last Year , we apart to long distant relationship due to working. In this 8 month , our relationship become worse and getting break up. She started a relationship with other guy.The break up reason is that i didnt beside her when she need me. She say tired of long distant relaionship and i didnt understand what she wantShould i get her back?? though she already start a relationship with other not long ago..I m still long distant. She say that no more chance for us in the future!Any suggestion?
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reader, regretmymistakes  +, writes (18 February 2009):
Honestly, the right thing to do is ask her. I know shes dating someone else, btu I was ina long distance and Im the girl that dated another guy fast. I regret every second and Im dying to get back to him but I know that I cant, just ask her. Tell her that u still love her and this is the last time. Do it for me :)
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reader, deeperstart  +, writes (25 January 2009):
i guess its best to give up... i am on the same situation. it won't work. the more you keep being hopeful the longer you'll be able to move on. i understand how you feel. its best to give them what they want. i have done my part of taking her back but you should know that they aren't the same as when you first met them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): If i Move back to the place that nearer to her, Is there any chances of getting her back??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): She has said she finds a long-distance relationship difficult and found someone else. You wouldn't be able to give her any more than what you were doing, so try to find someone nearer home, who you have more time for, or someone who doesn't mind less of your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Should you get her back... Well you can't I'm afraid. She has already started another relationship and moved on. She says there is no more chance for you, you have no future.
Write her a letter (if you feel you must), telling her much you love and miss her. But it will not bring her back. This is all you can do to show your love. (apart from ballons, flowers, skywriting, or something suitably grand) This might prove a nusiance and irritate her. I don't know her, so I don't know how she feels. Telling her how you feel, will however reduce your regets, and give you the knowledge that you tried everything in your power to be with this girl. You can do no more....
If you love something then you must let it fly free, if it loves you it will come back.
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