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I'm running a family business and he's running his own business, but we live 2 hours drive from eachother.

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Question - (21 May 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Canada, *una~ writes:

I don't know what I want.

I might sound a bit greedy. I love my boyfriend dearly, and I really want to start living with him. He lives 2 hrs drive away from me.

We both have a career where we live; I'm running a family business and he's running his own business. Financially, he can support me even if I don't have to work. However, I don't like the idea of relying on him finanically (he makes more than me right now).

I can't be a stay at home person. My family will not be impressed with me leaving the family business. We've been driving back and forth every weekend to spend time together. I don't know how much longer until we think it's ridiculous to do so.

We've been dating for 3 years and I'm not discussing with him about living together or getting married because I don't know what we can do with the career arrangement.

How can I work this out?

(we talked about buying a place in between the 2 cities, but then we'll both suffer from the crazy drive everyday. I can see it'll be a disaster at the end).

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