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We considered breaking up before the distance would become a problem. But I find this relation worth fighting for, what do I do?

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Question - (20 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *olostick23 writes:

I started dating this girl(who is a year younger than me) second semester of school and after prom we started talking about what's next in our relationship.

We thought of breaking up before things get further where we would get even more hurt.

Since I'm leaving for school in Boston and she will have one more year of high school in Washington DC will it work if we stay together? We are still in early stages of the relationship, but i feel this one (for the first time actually) is very special. What do i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

If it is special, why ruin it now?

My bf and I stayed together for two whole years while I was at school almost 5 hours away!

The key is to communicat, get a good phone plan that you can talk every evening or so, email and keep in touch!

Who knows, you might both move on, and end up breaking up, but why waste a summer being happy when you could give it a shot!

:-D

Hope that helps... message me if you wanna chat about it any more...!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

Break up! There are alot of fish in the sea my friend.

IT will happen naturally anyway. She will meet someone or you will. It will happen accidentally but it will happen.

And then you wont know how to tell eachother and it gets messy! Just break up remain friends and get on with life. Maybe you can be together down the road.

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