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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

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Could my hunch be right? Could he turn into a stuffy old man who doesn't know how to love life and enjoy life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I have a new boyfriend and I feel really comfortable with him. But something bothers me. He does not seem to have many friends. Perhaps no close friends at all. He talk about work colleagues. It's as if he arrived in this world and never made ...

He acts like every little problem is doomsday. Is this relationship viable? For a long term future together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I am losing feelings for my boyfriend. I am 44, he is 47. We have been dating for almost 2 years. He works too much and we hardly ever see each other. I keep telling myself that I'm getting used to it...but I'm not. I feel sorry for myself...

Random girls? no problem. So why do I have semi-ED with girls I really like ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, i have this lil problem thats driving me crazy :( here is the situation, its about premature ejaculation but the thing is , it never happens to me with random girls that i randomly pick up at clubs and bars. i can last as long as ...

For Girls: First Impressions when you meet a guy - is 5 foot six inches tall enough for you? Or do you prefer taller?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello This question is mostly for girls Do you find attractive a guy who is 5.6 feet or maybe girls want a guy who is taller. Well I know some responses may be 'a guy must be loyal,caring etc' but my question is related with first impression. T...

Husband is away. I'm feeling horny. Should I give in and be unfaithful while my husband is away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Am a girl of 26 married with two kids. My husband traveled out of the country a year and 5 months now I don't know when he will be coming back. The problem is that am feeling lonely and horny, many guys do comes around to have sex with me, wh...

My Gf will not give up on me and yet her loyalties are divided. She's cheating again. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My gf is torn between two. She left me in the past for this women and she is currently is doing it again. So I broke it off but we still live together and she sits and lies to my face about the situation but when I cough up everything she w...

Is this normal that my persistent 45 year old Ex is chasing after me after a month of silence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Dear all. Your thoughts please! In brief, My bf and i have had a rather hard work relationship. We were together for 16 months. Things got worse,and he kept ignoring me for up to 3 wks at a time. In the end he said it was ok. I was like,ok. Th...

Could my breasts get larger without the side effects of the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - my breasts have grown bigger since i've been on the pill, but i didn't get and soreness or aching which i'm concerned about? Of course i'm not complaining, but is it possible that they can grow without any of those side effects? ...

Vitamin supplements that could help improve my memory?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, Just a heads up its not a relationship question,but they are so many wise people out here,so I thought I would reach out to you guys.. So I have a very very important and life changing exam in december,and I'm putting in a lot of work...

My boyfriend said I smelled bad during oral sex. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend went to eat me out and he said that I "smelled bad" he didn't say it was fishy, just smelled bad. What can I do to fix this? I know I don't have any infections. Is there any soaps, cleansing pads, etc. I could use to fix this? Thanks!...

Is this a panic attack or am I just afraid of what happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hi i don't know if anyone will be able to give me a set answer but i was just curious, i find that when i talk about my past to my boyfriend about my mum and when she was ill, she died when i was young but i can remember it really clearly a lot of ...

I'm uncomfortable that my daughter with diabetes will inject herself in public. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Okay, a very tricky question here. About a year ago my 24 years old my daughter suddenly developed diabetes type 1 - yes, type 1 where you have to take insulin - and ever since then she has to take insulin shots 4 times a day. We have no history ...

He's a great guy, but modestly uptight...should I give him a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4210 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Hey Cupid, I need some advice. I struck up a conversation with this guy over the summer and we hit it off pretty well. Since our second date, we've established contact on the phone and he's a nice guy to talk to. Personally I feel as thou...

My husband sides with his sister not me. How do I end this argurment and not feel aggrieved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I really need some help here as I am going round in circles. I have had a massive falling out with my sister in law and we have had nothing to do with each other for about 18 months. My husband sided with her in the argument so naturally things h...

Am I drinking to the point where my caffeine intake is too high? I've switched to black tea now. is that better for my health?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I used to buy coffee from [biggest coffee chain in America] every day. I got hooked on the caffeine. The expenses were adding up so I switched to black tea by the same company which was cheaper. Now I buy black tea in bulk from supermarkets (10...

I got too clingy! How can I show him that the old me is back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - please help ive made an awful mess of this. ok i have a good friend and during the summer we became close. hes been with a girl 5 years. she has a lot of issues which hes explained. she needs lots of space, goes out drinking with guys from work and...

She was the ONE. I'm still getting over our break-up. I would love to hear your thoughts on my issues please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

27 October 2012 (M) - It's been almost three years since we first broke up. About two years since we actually spoke to each other even though we were hanging out within 5 feet at a friends about a year ago and still didn't actually speak. I don't know a lot obviously,...

Do you think he wants me just for sex? He admits he had a STD test recently. Could he be a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy and we've been on three dates. He initiated everything from asking me for my number, to arranging for our dates, to paying for each one of them. Yesterday he invited me for drinks with his friends. They were mostly ...

My due date is soon. I'm really scared. So how can I get this fear under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - When my mum had my youngest sister 6 years ago she had really bad complications in pregnancy (eclampsia) She ended up really sick and to be honest it frightend me to bits as being 18 at the time, the memory is very fresh. I'm now expecting my...

We dated for a year. Then were told we're related. Is it wrong to stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I have been talking to this guy a year now and he's everything I wanted in a man. After the year was up we were told we were related. That hurt me to the core. We care for each other so much. Is it wrong to not let go? I wish I would have known...

I get too wet during sex and it worries me that he can't feel me properly. Is there a solution possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone... Okay this is a kind of embarrassing problem and i'm really paranoid about it , its starting to affect my confidence and my sex life. So iv'e got 2 children 7 and 8 and im a good weight, healthy etc, thing is though, quite a lot late...

She's not just curvy anymore. I love my wife and she means a lot to me but why does she ignore my request that she please keep in shape? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - I have an issue. My wife and I have been together for 9 and a half year and married for 8. When we first started dating she was always trying to stay in shape. All the way up to our 4th year of being together. Then she decided to get too relax...

Can you guide me towards better choices? Why does he not bother with me at all anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I (together for 2 and half years) are going through a really bad phase of our relationship and it doesn't seem to be letting up any time soon. Our relationship has hit rock bottom and I'm driving my self mad trying to figure...

Why can't I ever orgasm? I have to fake it every time, even though I want to orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - So, I don't know much about other women's experiences, but everyone knows that guys sometimes (out of nervousness or shyness etc) can't get it up, if you know what I mean. I know that women don't have 'ahem's' ...but can they get the same sort of ...

Twelve years together. But now his porn addiction has taken a nasty turn for the worse. Should I dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My man friend (been together 12 years) has a porn addiction. In the last 6 months..he's given out his phone number so these nasty ladies can contact him by text. He say's it's just a game. The other day I looked at his history and discover...

How do I learn to trust him? And how many second chances should I be giving out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4213 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - First off the last year and a bit I've been on and off with this guy (j). More off than on to be honest. We started seeing each other in September and it finished early November. But in that time I fell in love with him, and I've been through ...

How do I heal the relationship? Do I love too deeply?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for 21 months - nearly two years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son together. I have two kids at home with me so two toddlers. Last night though, out of nowhere he turned around and told me he fell out of love with me ove...

Is my friend enabling her son? Should she talk to a professional?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I have a friend whose adult son is having a lot of issues. Basically he is living on the streets and has troubles with his family, etc. My friend is sending her son money to help him out. I think it sounds like she's enabling his bad behavior, so...

How do I get my confidence back after all these years of harsh treatment from others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Where to start...I'm 24-years-old, and have no friends. The reason is being I'm not confident enough in myself to talk to anyone other than basic small talk. My background: I was bullied very badly in high school. It started sophomore year (9 ye...

It's beyond me. What kind of help does my wife need about her fetish? She seems to want to get sick. I'm at a loss. Does she need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I'm 31, my wife's 28, and recently she's developed a new fetish. She's become hooked on getting a stomach-ache having read webforums and sites about 'stomachache fetishes', and eats a lot of rich food in order to get it. She keeps going on a...

I'm at my wits end. Help! what should I do. The Laptop gets more attention than me in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, well my problem is this.... For the last two years since ive been with my bf he has been constantly working on his laptop to make a computer game (not so much in the first few months) It's his dream to make it big and i support hi...

I doubt myself. I never feel like I'm good enough What do I need to make things feel better for me?

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25 October 2012 (F) - I just recently got in to a relationship, at first I had a massive crush on him and he did too. We met at a party a few weeks ago. He was ever so sweet and adorable, but we didn't really "click" if that makes sense. At the end of the night we did...

He blocks me out. Yet I do everything for him and his children. Is it time to stop being so giving? or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I met him about 4 years ago. 2 years ago we finally got together after both being in love with each other for about a year. He is about 10 years older than me and has a few kids. At the start things were perfect. He was so in love with...

I'm scared for my best friend. How can I stop her boy friend from pressuring her to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My best friend is being convinced by her boyfriend to have sex. I have cried every day trying to convince her the consequences. Her boyfriend says he knows what he is doing but he is only 13. I really need help to try to convince her boyfriend no...

Do I need to step back? Her new attitude worries me since she started getting counselling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now. She has never been in a healthy relationship until we got together. She has had to take counselling to help her deal with these past relationships. On top of all this she's dealing with the ...

Do I stay and hope he can contain his love of gambling? Or do I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - me and boyfriend have been together a year, we now live together and i love him very much. i have a daughter from a previous relationship who he is great with. the problem is he likes to gamble, hes currently awaiting his date to join the army, s...

I am concerned for my Bi-polar Bf. Our last meeting was acrimonious. Should I go to see him or wait for him to make contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I'm so upset. My boyfriend has bipolar disorder, and he gets really nasty sometimes when he has drunk alcohol. He had a few drinks today, even though he told me that he wasn't going to get drunk. He also told me that he wasn't going to see his...

How can I improve my mom's quality of life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - This is not a regular relationship question. However, I'd really appreciate it if you'd all try to help me out. I basically want tips on how to improve my mom's quality of life. She has progressive MS and is in an electrical wheelchair. She can only ...

Is this a normal reaction to stress?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - today, one of my parents and one of my siblings got into an extremely heated screaming match. you could almost feel the hate boiling between them. they were hoarse after, because it was so intense. then there was horrible crying and sobbing,...

My older brother physically abuses me and my mom is fine with it. What rights do I have in this? What power do I have to stop him from doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Hi. So, my older brother hits me. He doesn't do it very often but when he does, he hits me bad. He abuses me verbally constantly calling me names and insulting me in every possible way. He's always been like this to me since we were kids, he's ...

I thought marriage was all about cherishing the one you love. All he does is cheat? And ignore his children and me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 7 1/2 years and I have been married 2 1/2 years. Through the time of all these years. He has done nothing but cheated and he feels like its not a big deal at all when he gets caught in his lies or the females ...

I have to have surgery and I'm afraid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - im really really really scared about my scoliosis surgery i have the feeling im going to die or something will go wrong, or i will be paralysed forever. what is the chance something will go wrong? is it as bad as i think it is? i don't like the i...

Is it injurious to my health that daily I only talk to my Bf? I'm tired, sad, and ready to walk out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Hi I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and I moved to the city 6 months ago when he got a new job. I still love him dearly but the problem is I'm lonely have no friends and feel severely depressed. I work from home and have little energy to...

A friend of my Bf keeps offering him smokes. My Bf knows I don't like this. Do I have the right to ask him to refuse to smoke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months very occasionally smokes ~ I've only seen him do it a couple of times, and every time this has been when he has been with his one friend who I'll call 'C'. I'm not completely sure what it is that C smokes, but I think it's ...

Why do I keep on wanting what I can't have, namely: married men? Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Why do I go for married men? Even though I know it never works! I really like this guy, who is quite a lot older than I am; and married! He confessed he had fallen for me, I tried to convince him he hadn't because he was married, but I knew that ...

Should I leave him? I'm tired of feeling 'second class' and "not quite good enough for him".

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together now for about 14 years. We have 2 beautiful children. However, i am so sick of dealing with his selfish ways. He has cheated 3 times, the first was about 9 years into our relationship and was a full on relations...

IPhone addict? Sending a picture of himself in some of my clothing? What can I do about his addiction to his phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - My husband has recently become obsessed, and I mean obsessed with his iPhone. The iPhone isn't new, he's had it since January, so it's not like a kid with a new toy at Christmas, but he spends hours on social networking sites with it, and spends m...

I've just broken up with my Gf. Can I have some advice please? Her mixed messages and all the pain I've been going through is a heavy load.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 and a half years just broke up with me on Saturday saying we need some space. She says I need to become more independent and self sufficient. I can see where she is coming from but I can't tell if it is tough love or forever....

Is Abstinence the only answer as birth control for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I'm having a lot of trouble with birth control methods and I don't know whether to ask my boyfriend if we can stop having sex until we're ready to settle down. We've been together for a year and sexually active for almost all of it. At the start...

Am I too controlling for wanting to help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - Hello all, I was curious to get a second opinion on a situation. Now my girlfriend is notoriously for procrastinating, motivating herself, forgetting to do important things, and is very lazy, to the point where if I ask about something she was supp...